Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality

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Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality

Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality

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It's hard to publicly talk about things that you're not yet fully worked out on, but equally in a different context or just in general, it's always helpful to hear from people who are working things out because that, as I said, is how a lot of people feel and it's sometimes harder to hear from people who have it all worked out because you wonder, 'How did you get there?'" Mae Martin is an award-winning Canadian comedian, writer and presenter of podcast G rownUp Land. In these two collected BBC Radio 4 series, she explores her generation's views on addiction and sexuality.

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It’s so frustrating that so much of identity is about comparison. I just feel like myself. I don’t even feel non-binary. I just wake up, have a coffee and go to work,” Martin explained. Sumi, Glenn (6 November 2003). "Cream of Comedy 2003 nominees". NOW Toronto . Retrieved 26 September 2022. The TV series, yes. We are here to discuss Feel Good, a new Channel 4 comedy, co-written by and starring Martin as a comedian called Mae, navigating the sensitive dynamics of her NA group, a relationship with a straight girl (played by Charlotte Ritchie), and a strained bond with her mother, performed magnificently by Lisa Kudrow. My sexuality is not a huge part of who I am. It’s not even a particularly interesting part In another sketch Martin mentions that the only thing young Mae asked for at Christmas was the right to turn up at the extended family dinner naked. Well actually, Martin says, the reality was somewhat different. “I loved to be naked. I was naked a lot as a kid – it wasn’t just Christmas. That was a joke.” Now I can see why Martin is so reluctant to be asked about the truth of their comedy. Personal comedy is a retelling of reality with bells on. To literalise it is to suffocate it. Mae Martin is a British-Canadian comedian, actress, writer, and producer.She has been performing comedy since she was aged 13. Shetrained in improvisation and sketch comedy at the Toronto outpost of the internationally acclaimed comedy institution, The Second City. Notable alumni of the institution include Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Steve Carrell and Mike Myers.You'd think, between being in the BBC's very popular and very, very good haunted house sitcom Ghosts as well as the last series of Taskmaster, she'd aim a bit higher. But no: it's Centre Parcs or bust.

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Martin insists that there will not be a third series, that Feel Good has reached its natural conclusion. The show was about its two protagonists finding a way to feel good about themselves. And somehow they got there. To make another series, Martin says, would be a betrayal. “You’d have to undo all this personal growth that the characters have made.” So now Martin is writing a thriller with Hampson, preparing for a tour in autumn that may see a return to the character-based sketches of old, and relishing recent success.MM: Definitely. I think if I was trying to write just a drama, it’d feel like I had conspicuously and consciously omitted all the natural humour that there is in life. First episode of @c4randomacts airs tomorrow at midnight! Can’t wait. Catch it on 4oD 🔥🔥🔥 (I don’t know which ep this is from but I had candles) All the conversation is focused around pronouns and things like that, and I’m like, however you read me is fine. I know how I read myself,” they said. I mean this in the best possible way: Mae Martin tells stories like a 7 year old bursting into a room to tell their parents about something exciting they just saw outside. Their stories are better crafted, obviously; they’re compelling, kinetic, and anchored by fleshed-out beats. But there’s a breathless quality to them. Martin is constantly interrupting themself and referring to the audience as “guys.” “I have so much to tell you, genuinely,” they gush at the beginning of their stand-up special SAP, out now on Netflix. Martin’s excitable brand of storytelling makes the special’s best observational chunk — a bit about identity formation and the transactional nature of social interactions — hit harder.

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Along with two school friends, Martin went to the Toronto sketch show Family Circus Maximus 160 times in a single year. Newspaper features were written about the trio, who became known as “the Groupies”. Martin began to do their own standup, in school uniform, at 13. “I felt my whole body vibrating with excitement and euphoria. I found the adrenaline addictive, and the camaraderie and the feeling of inclusion into this club of cool people that I admired. I couldn’t believe it. It felt amazing.” You can sense their euphoria, as Martin recalls it. Wilner, Norman (16 March 2020). "Canadian Mae Martin on her Netflix show, reworking bits of her life and her Kids in the Hall fandom". NOW Magazine . Retrieved 5 July 2021. MM: I think it changes episode by episode. And I like that it's, even at the very end, I think, kind of open to interpretation. I'm rooting for them, because I think they're really in love. And that kind of love is hard to find. However, I think the main message of the show is that that has to be a choice that you make every day based on whether it's making you happy, and whether your needs are being met, and you're able to meet the needs of someone else. So I think they're trying to get to that place where they're choosing to be with each other rather than compelled to be with each other because of a gaping chasm of insatiable need. And it's interesting, you mentioned catharsis – obviously Mae the character mirrors a lot of yourself in loads of different ways. Is writing about this and some really complex themes cathartic? Is it helpful, or is it...

Mae Martin’s parents are James Chatto and Wendy Martin. Mae Martin’s father’s name is James Chatto who used to be a child actor. Her mother’s name is Wendy Martin.

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You’re like, why is everyone reading me this way? I remember middle-aged women forcing me out of the girls’ changing room when I was ten, because I had my towel around my waist and short hair,” they explained. Logan, Brian (10 November 2016). "Mae Martin's candid bid to make sexuality 'one less thing kids worry about' ". The Guardian . Retrieved 14 April 2021. Logan, Brian (24 August 2017). "Mae Martin: Dope review – hair-raising comedy about romance and rehab". the Guardian . Retrieved 5 July 2021. What did she learn? “I guess the big realisation was that addiction isn’t really about substances. The definition that I use is from [writer and physician] Dr Gabor Maté, which is: addiction is something that you crave, find relief from and can’t give up, despite knowing the negative consequences.” Imagine, she asks her audiences, that they’ve just realised they’ve left their phone in the bar – they wouldn’t burst into tears, but the nagging anxiety, the need to touch it again, would mean they wouldn’t laugh for the rest of the show. “Right? His is such a broad definition and resonates with so many people, whether it’s our phones or food or sex or relationships. Things that we know are bad for us, but that soothe us when we’re finding the present moment difficult. Hearing that was kind of a breakthrough for me.” Last week, Martin discovered how popular Feel Good is when visiting Trans Pride in London. “It felt amazing. People were being so nice. They were just coming up and talking to me.” Has Martin ever experienced this in the past? “Yes. I guess before Feel Good it was once a week-ish, and now it’s a couple of times a day.”It’s funny when I hang out with my friends’ kids, so many of them refer to me as he instinctively and intuitively. Mae’s silliness pierces through even the most intense moments, breaking the tension with often poetic poignance. After receiving a diagnosis of PTSD, Mae asks the doctor: “Do you think you could just test if I’m full of birds or something?”



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