Another idiotic thing to do in a relationship is take your partner for granted. You shouldn’t take them for granted just because they’re always there for you.They could leave at any time, so it’s important to show them how much you appreciate them.

In pain with you, and yet I could not go. I stayed since nothing better came along. I loved you by default or just for show, My life a whistled flat unechoed song. I groped for notches in our dun abyss, And looked for more in lonely only less. I shunned the path adorned with signs to bliss, And stood the loyal ground of wait or guess. It took the tender you to shift the scene, Bold arsonist beneath our tinder stage! I then in friendly fire to earth careen And from our props and ashes disengage. I begged you long with such a silent ache In fear of, wish for mercy for my sake. What Love Feels Like” Do your best to calm things down between you and your partner. It’s totally normal for couples to argue from time to time. But if an argument gets too emotional or angry, take it upon yourself to try to bring peace so you and your partner can effectively communicate. [6] X Research source

Admit when you are wrong, learn from it and move on together if you can. A relationship will falter when one party does not take responsibility for things they have done wrong. Let them tell you in their own words. You aren’t a mind reader! And really, you can’t always assume you know what’s going on with your partner, no matter how long you’ve been together. If they seem like something is bothering them, don’t just let it slide and ignore it. Pay attention to any cues they’re giving you and ask them of they want to talk to you about what’s bothering them. [8] X Expert Source Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW Whatever the case may be, it’s important to accept that there will be consequences for your actions and learn from them so that you don’t make the same mistake again in the future. 6. Don’t be an idiot- and we say this with love Access-restricted-item true Addeddate 2012-11-21 17:11:52 Bookplateleaf 0002 Boxid IA1649701 Camera Canon EOS 5D Mark II City Boston Donor

We sit as a practice for how we will act throughout the day. Mindfulness, however, involves more than sitting. It is moment by moment non-clinging to ego. It is the simplicity that results when we experience reality without the clutter produced by the decorative arts of ego.” Here are some of my favorite quotes from his book (there were a lot.... he is an excellent writer and was able to put difficult feelings and experiences very precisely and gracefully into clear words):Everyone has different opinions and beliefs, and it’s important to respect your partner’s even if they are different from your own. Allowing life and love to be just as they are, with all their ecstasy and ache, without trying to take control.