Remember that the drying after cleaning is just as important as the cleaning itself. If you don’t dry off properly it will leave moist areas and a perfect place for bacteria to thrive. In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub. Withholding orgasm- The submissive will not be allowed to have an orgasm for a certain period of time.

Speech Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to talk to the Dominant. For me, this would be a very painful punishment. I need a voice and to be unable to speak to him would be very painful.Remember that part of the fun is maybe being spotted with your device, and that you will not get the same rush and experience if you cheat.

Also somewhere in this I spoke about how I was not good at reading hints and that I liked to know exactly what I was doing right or wrong. I mentioned that I would like her to help me be better by spanking me but she was not enthusiastic about that. Her comment being that I was not a child and she did not want to treat me as a child.The program may be closed and reopened at any time. When restarted it remembers everything that happened. Mindset-based: These are rules or tasks that may include permission before doing an action, kneeling/positions, or focus tasks to remind of role. Examples: Ask permission before you get dressed, Kneel for 10 mins while focused on posture, or Place both hands in lap for 5 seconds before submissive may eat. Human keyholders also like you better if you do all the tasks they assign you. You wouldn't want to be with a keyholder who doesn't like you. ;) Thank you (You), I am unsure if you are a Woman or a man, but appreciate your effort in creating this piece. When you’re on the receiving end of this type of punishment you may be asked to count the number of strikes. Counting aloud can really drive home the importance of the rule and the consequence for breaking it.

Appearance-based: These are rules or tasks that may include clothing, makeup, hair, or accessory specifications. Examples: Having clothing or undergarments chosen by Dominant, Designated color to wear, or Wear hair a certain way or for a specific time.Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it.

When it comes to punishment, your FLR is very different from mine. I do get penalties. With the whip, the paddle or the cane if violent offenses have occurred. Masturbation or lying would be something like that, for example. Then it will really hurt. My wife gets great satisfaction when I beg to stop and vow to do better. Above all, she enjoys the power to comply or not to comply with my begging. Unfortunately, she feels just as comfortable in the role of the kind as in the role of the unimpressed. The latter more often. Lines- Think like the bad students writing “I will not chew gum” on the board over and over again. Same concept. Both of the writing punishments are effective because they require internal thought combined with a physical action. There is something cathartic that happens when you commit an idea or thought to paper. It helps commit the idea to memory. another one is d10 - defines number of days you will need to do a specific task. For example you got 3. Spanking. Orgasm Denial. Silent treatment. All are forms of punishment that a Dominant can use to punish their submissive. Some people like the idea of punishments. In fact, that may be their biggest attraction to the BDSM way of life. But it’s not the main draw. I may decide to ask during your chastity period for further photos and you will respond within 1 hour.Housework (There are things she wants to do herself, I have to do the rest. There are exceptions, for example if there is simply not enough time, then she does it herself. No problem as long as it is justified and rare.). Of course, you won't be doing all the tasks. You let us know what you like, what you don't like, what toys you have, and we'll select your tasks based on this. Remember, you can also write an introduction about yourself ( more about introductions here), so if you're with a human keyholder, they can more clearly see what you would like to get out of your chastity sessions.