Fantastic sex is from that special person who wants you in life and to be shared with others tends to ruin a marriage. I know that’s what happened to me on my first marriage . If you want to experience multiple men in bedroom get a ( toys) that cling to the wall and go that route it will give you the idea of what two men are like and it may turn him on or off depending on how much he loves you. News 5 hours ago Clearing Ken Agyapong to contest means NPP has lost its soul and identity – Senyo Hosi First, I will say I do not speak from experience as this is something I wouldn't do myself and my post will reflect my views.

A woman have really a hard time being a ** & to find a true man who can accept her as she is. Cuz men when it comes to choose a wife the raise the bar higher for whom they will build house, life , future to, in addition to whom they will give half of their wealth to.Your husband sounds like a gem. When you told him no, I don't really want that, he NEVER brought it up again. That is a man who can TALK to his wife about fantasies, sex but also RESPECT what she said. Maybe once it was out there he had a little thought and decided in his own mind that sharing you is not something he really wants. But one critical reason sex stalls that is not often discussed is how sex starts—that is to say, sexual initiation. i must make my mind up my wife would kill me if she knew or i can,t bare to think of what my sister in law wants what should i do i need your help If she was in the mood to find someone and I wasn't then I would get pissed that she was "doing this on her own". If I was in the mood for it and she wasn't. She would get pissed "That is all you think about". Both of them ended up in a emotionally bad place. Him for being "indulged" all the time and putting HIS needs for sex above her and his family and her for doing things (sexually and otherwise) she really didn't WANT to do.

What I suggest is you keep it all to yourself and forget about what the sister in law said. I hardly doubt she will go around telling your wife especially after what she said to you. If your wife ever finds out just deny it and don't even mention anything of what the in-law said to you. This will only cause everyone problems. No, and this isn’t the question you should be asking. You should be asking yourself what you want, given how very shabbily you have been treated. Your wife says she respects you but I think she needs a dictionary. Can we imagine for a moment if the roles were reversed? Perhaps you would see how emotionally abusive this relationship is. My wife Karen , out of the blue says she wants to start swinging. She tends to be very driven, and usually gets what she wants. I asked her why she wants to do that. She tells me she feels it will spice up our relationship, she thought our marriage was getting stale. If I didn’t agree to swinging, then she wants an open marriage. “If you don’t say yes to swinging I have someone I want to date on Friday, “ To try it: If your desire is an encounter that focuses more heavily on sensuality, tell your partner you'd like to take things slower than usual the next time you have sex. Spend extra time on foreplay, and play around with trying to arouse each other by exploring one another's bodies in ways you normally wouldn't. Slowly building up to orgasms can draw out your pleasure, an add in that powerful element of sensuality that you're craving. Remember, fantasies are normal and healthy.As for him wanting you to be your own person, again. Gem of a man. Doesn't mean he WANTS you, the mother of his kids, his wife, and partner in life to have sex with other men. Speaking from experience.... don't do it. We "spiced" things up. For a few years it was awesome at first. BUT, if you have underlying issues this will be the straw that ruins your marriage. I felt your wife was also being rather provoking – where does she get off telling you that she’s going to leave you in X years time, but, hey, you’re a nice guy and look who I’ve got on the subs bench for you? It’s massively insulting to you and her “best” friend. How it impacted her relationship:“I’ve never been tempted to stray outside of my relationship by having an affair. Swinging takes care of all of my sex needs. I really feel that it strengthens every relationship. I don’t view sex as something that you only have with someone you love. Sex is recreational. I think every boyfriend I’ve had has felt the same way. Along the way, I started filming myself with various people and decided to take my swinging/exhibitionist/kinky lifestyle and make it full time. I guess you could say that swinging has enriched my relationships and also enriched my life.”

Karen has changed a lot over the last few years, she is a big time executive at her job, and makes a boat load of money. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me. She works out almost everyday, which gives her a killer body, she still has big ** too, Go figure! An open marriage wouldn’t work for me, not the lady-killer. While the way she is, and the way she looks, I am sure she would be ** every weekend.

Here’s one major caveat: You need to communicate exactly what the arrangement is. “For any type of ethical non-monogamy to work peacefully, and here I’ll include swinging, you really have to be on top of your communication game, and be incredibly self-aware,” says Dr. Emily Morse, host of the podcast “ Sex With Emily ”and author of Smart Sex.“Most folks think any type of non-monogamy is about more sex, but if anything, it requires more communication!” You need to take extra time to process your emotions around your sexual relationships and how its impacting your main partner, even if you develop other sexual and romantic connections, emphasizes Morse.

In 2000 I suggested to my husband since he was never going to forgive any thing or any one for the way we had him treated after he discharged from the Navy with a honorable discharge. All I had done until then was I did have one affair while he was Underwater for three and a half years out of pure lonlyness after our marriage a year and a half before. then when he returned two years latter things were just such a disruption with his nine years seniority and more than sixty percent of the UAW plat he was retuning from his military leave to. I was trying to keep him from being more disruptive than nearly 160 other Military returnees had been the last year. Your wife Karen has already been getting ** by other guys before she even brought up the idea of swinging to you. She just wants to alleviate her guilt by convincing you that it is your idea that she can ** other guys. One of the most frequent questions I hear in my practice is, “I’m a considerate person, I am a good partner, and I take care of myself. So why doesn’t my partner want to have sex with me?”

Lifestyle 8 hours ago BREAKING News: Court Delivers Verdict On Asamoah Gyan Divorce; Gives Wife UK, Spintex Houses, Cars, Lands And More Single men will try to separate you from your husband. Your husband will most likely get the same attention so limit yourself to the same level. Better don't do it.