Now hear me clearly, I am not advocating in any way, shape, or form for hurting your children for the sheer purpose of hurting them. I am not giving the okay to beat your kids. There is a massive difference between spanking done properly and abuse. Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- Lois, 03:39:45 08/10/23 Thu

Re: What does your brush, implement look like, where is it kept -- Laura (Matt's mom), 06:47:02 08/23/23 Wed When I got within arm’s reach of Kate, she pulled me across her lap and began spanking me with her hand, even harder and faster than she had spanked the girls. I am sure that I got the most spanks of any of us that day. The following true story took place in the summer of 1984, when I was nine years old. My parents had divorced two years earlier. Since then, I had lived with my mom in New England, and had spent four weeks every summer with my dad at his home in Georgia. With my mom, spanking was a last resort, to be used only for exceptionally naughty behaviour. But for Kate, spanking was the go-to discipline. I probably got spanked two or three times a year, but it seemed like Denise and Kristie got their bottoms tanned more than two or three times in a week.

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I have read of poor "Rebellious" and think it is awful that she should have to submit to such indignities, not only from her husband but from her mother-in-law. I do not designate her as mother-in-law, because she cannot be one to her and spank her. "Mother" is a word too sacred to be used for one who would spank her daughter-in- law so unmercifully as the reading of her letter would portray. Poor "Rebellious", it is sad to think she has such a hard lot. I would practice on my husband a little of his own medicine and if he refused to let me, I would refuse to kneel and be spanked the next time he wished. And I would refuse with such a determined tone that he would not do it, or his mother either. It is disrgraceful to have such conduct going on in a domestic household. The idea, a woman kneeling on the floor to be spanked. I suppose she used a slipper or hairbrush to make it all the more degrading. How painful it must have been! Growing up, spankings were easily found on the internet. Old films were a readily available source of material. Sadly for me, though, most featured men spanking women – there were very few examples of women spanking young men! Spanking is not fun for me, I get no enjoyment from it, I get no sense of power, no sense of “victory.” But I do feel it is necessary at times. I believe I have a daughter who is respectful, kind, empathetic, loving, and well behaved because the option of spanking is in the “bag of discipline” techniques. She is also those things because I keep the value of nurturing just as much as the value of discipline. When any discipline occurs whether it be spanking or otherwise, shortly afterward, I always talk to my daughter and clearly explain why the discipline occurred and that I love her. In fact, when writing this post I decided to nonchalantly interview my 5-year-old daughter on the topic. Here are her responses: Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- Cherie, 07:50:53 08/08/23 Tue Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- Mary, 14:08:05 08/06/23 Sun

I don't see why it is that when girls are spanked they are so anxious to rush into print. Take the letter whch appeared in your paper a few evenings ago. "Rebellious" ought to have an extra spanking for writing it. I believe in a good sound spanking when they deserve it. I have two daughters aged sixteen and eighteen years and a dughter-in-law aged twenty-two years. If either disobeys me or does wrong in any manner I take her across my knee and spank her for at least three minutes with my slipper or give about twenty strokes with a good stout strap. Like "Rebellious" I often make them kneel too when spanking, as it gives my arm more freedom and the spanking is then more thorough. At such times I use a rattan. The consequence is my son has a good and obedient wife and I have three good and respectfull daughters. Now, I say to all mothers, if your girls deserve a spanking, take them across your knee and spank hard. Like many who have contributed before me, I could not understand my overriding fascination with being spanked. In the end, I simply came to the conclusion that I was born this way. She was so cool as she got me ready for my spanking, like an expert, as if she did it every day! “I heard her say: You are such a naughty boy, being cheeky like that to Adam’s mum!” As she continued to scold me, she eased my pyjama bottoms down to expose my bare bum. I hadn’t said a word by this point – in truth, I was totally speechless. I hadn’t been naughty at all. Sometimes, a whole class could get a ‘double stripe’ for rowdiness. Then, if you just got a single stripe on top of that, you were for it. A bit unfair, but this was Anne’s situation. I had also accumulated three stripes this way myself a couple of times, but for some reason escaped with just a telling-off.Yes. Hitting is when you be mean to someone and push them or hit them in the face. Spanking is only on your bottom and it means just that I am in trouble. Dad spanked, but Mom was the primary disciplinarian in the household. She had been a classroom teacher for several years until the older of my brothers was born and then she became a stay-at-home mom. Spankings were not an everyday event at our house but they were not rare either. I would say I earned one a month on average in my peak years from 10 to 14, then a handful after that until my last. Expression (Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help) Re: Accentuating the muffin top so to speak to me when I place him across my lap. -- Lois, 03:36:00 09/08/23 Fri Betty is a mother of three from Arizona. At the time of interview, her two daughters were aged nine and ten, and she also had a 10-year-old stepdaughter.