Play in the [BDSM] scene provides a mental arousal rather the traditional sense of sexual pleasure. For instance, recently I had a session where I broke my slave. My slave was pushed to his mental and physical edge—he went as far as he could go with me. Cathartically, my slave let himself go, expressed his true vulnerability and wept. I am a sadist above all in the scene; I get a high from breaking someone mentally and physically. The combination of the two is the ultimate turn on for me. These experiences are rare achievements in the years that I have played. I cherish those sessions, and they are amongst the most stimulating for me. My favorite implements are my floggers and my singletail whips. I have the ability to play very light and sensual or heavy and sadistic if the person I am playing with wishes. Most people do not understand impact play, they think it’s about the pain, but that’s not always the case. Lambskin floggers are soft and sensual, and a person getting flogged experiences a sensation similar to a massage. I first became interested in BDSM during my master's program in psychology when I chose to write a paper on sadomasochism. I wrote more papers on SM during my master's and PhD programs, then ultimately wrote my doctoral dissertation on erotically submissive men. During this time, I took workshops and classes on different BDSM topics, preparing myself to work as a professional dominatrix.

He once told me he wished he could kill everything he eats. He caught, killed and gutted some cod for me and my family. So it’s actually the rats and snakes who should be more afraid of him.” Kris Jenner remembers Sánchez as the face of her news when she would have her coffee in the morning. She then met Sánchez when she and her then husband were peddling their “Superfit with Kris and Bruce Jenner” line of stair-climbers. They were reintroduced a few years ago by LA superconnector Michael Kives over dinner at Bezos’s estate in Beverly Hills. It is, unfortunately, more unusual to see women than men. This is changing, and women are becoming more empowered to call upon sex workers to explore their fantasies. I had an interesting experience wherein a straight woman booked a session with me because she wanted to be dominated but felt safer with a woman than a male dominant, either hired or found online. I think that’s smart and savvy, and we had an amazing scene. Seeing a dominatrix isn’t necessarily about sex or sexual identity, it’s about submission, or masochism, or catharsis, and I love being able to take women to those places as well as men. Nothing is typical in this industry. I have the extremely wealthy to the average Joe, and I enjoy them both. When a client is in my dungeon, it really doesn’t matter to me what they do or who they are in the real world. All of that is left at the door and they get to become something they yearn for and crave, whether it’s to be a masochist, submissive, slave, prisoner, patient, etc. But the common thread is the need to be able to escape the normal day to day. Some people go to spas, amusement parks or the movies, others go to dungeons.I started pro-domming while I was still a grad student here in LA. Much of my work in the field of art had to do with power dynamics, objectification, voyeurism and exhibitionism, so although I was always been interested in BDSM as a type of eroticized power exchange, I had a hard time giving myself permission to explore it in my personal life. I hear this laugh often, in fact. Bezos guffaws when I ask if he will get involved with wedding planning: “Oh, God, no. Do I look that dumb?”

Sánchez likes to drive her daughter to school. The ritual includes Bezos calling out to Ella before they leave, “Don’t learn anything I wouldn’t learn!”—a line that has become so dependable that the teenager now finishes it for him. “Sometimes we tussle,” Sánchez says of the school runs. “Other times she really opens up, and other times she says nothing and I take it in.” In the evening, after tutoring and piano lessons, the family eats dinner together. “Every night.” ISOLATION & PROLONGED CONFINEMENT – blindfolded or masked wearing a cage in a cage (in chastity for the uninitiated!) Plenty of time to contemplate the error of your ways.We know they will be in our lives forever,” says Jenner, who with partner Corey Gamble enjoys date nights with the soon-to-be Bezoses, such as attending Coachella last April and, more recently, the Beyoncé Renaissance World Tour birthday concert with their kids, including Kim and Khloé and North West, and Sánchez’s teenagers. Jenner says Sánchez knew the words to every song. Absolutely. Ideally, I would be friends with all my clients. I am there to open them up to the most sensitive and vulnerable part of themselves—there's a lot of trust and emotional closeness that is built. Some people want more than I can give—whether it's time, attention or specific acts—and in these instances I need to strongly enforce my boundaries, which makes it more difficult to have a friendship.

Always approach a mistress respectfully yet honestly and you’ll be fine. Trust she knows what’s best.I love inflicting pain, both physical and mental, and am a sadist through and through. My favorite sorts of play are corporal punishment, medical play, CBT and ballbusting, nipple torture and heavy degradation scenes. I enjoy this sort of play because it draws these insane reactions out of the subs that make the session so memorable. Kardashian was one of the two dozen women at Sánchez’s 53rd birthday luncheon hosted by philanthropist Laura Arrillaga-Andreessen in Malibu (complete with fondant helicopter cake). Bezos also threw Sánchez a surprise birthday dinner at Horses, the West Hollywood hot spot. In his speech, Bezos said, “One thing I learned about Lauren is if I’m in a bind, I can throw the gun to her.” Will she be taking his name? She looks at me like I am insane. “Uh, yes, one hundred percent. I am looking forward to being Mrs. Bezos.” Among others: Arrive clean. CLEAN. Immaculately clean. Clean like you are going to the doctor’s office and the doctor is going to make you bend in every revealing possible angle. I would have to say that I don’t have much patience for newbies who do not understand the protocol of how to communicate respectfully and professionally with a dominatrix.