ABDLs tend to have a higher-quality relationship because ABDLs have a heightened innate understanding of emotional needs towards each other. The real question is, "why do you want to know?" or, "Are you interested and curious about the practice of ageplay?" Many people find their love of ageplay very young or in their early twenties due to many factors. Knowing about the ABDL tendencies of your best friend has nothing to do with whether they trust you. The beautiful part about relationships is that long-lasting relationships are built over time through the smallest of moments. If you happen to be close to an ABDL, they will eventually tell you if they feel safe, and your trust is unwavering over a long period.

I thought about it for a second and then just let it go. My diaper got all warm and squishy and it all felt so right. I whispered to my daddy that I was wet and he just smiled, patted my ass and we kept shopping. My Daddy and I went to Ikea today to get some furniture and other home decor. Before we left he asked if I wanted to wear my diaper, in the past I’ve always said no, but today I said yes. He diapered me up and I squeezed into my jeans, threw on a hoodie and out we went. The world has a multi-billion dollar market of beauty and exercise products that reflect the chameleon approach to human connection as a result of human nature. We want to put our best selves forward, even at the cost of the authenticity of who we are, which is likely far more interesting and loveable. Why would someone be ABDL if the world seems to dislike them? When i was changing my diaper, using a disabled restroom (which was also mixed with the baby chaning area). So while in the middle of cleaning my mess, this older women walked in, seen me changing my diaper and just apoligised and left, so i finished changing and left, and as i did i heard the women talking to one of her freinds as i was leaving. So ye that was akward. I arrived at the mall and walked for a bit, sipping my water bottle. I stopped in a few stores, looked around a bit, bought some new panties from aerie and Victoria's Secret. I was kind of forgetting I had a pullup on. I had a slight need for the bathroom, but it wasn't anywhere near urgent yet.Knowing if your friend is ABDL shouldn't have any bearing on your relationship's quality; if they feel comfortable in themselves, they will tell you; or maybe they won't. Many ABDLs go through a majority of their life without telling anyone they are ABDL. It hasn't been until the availability of information through the internet that more ABDLs connect on a large scale and find enough support to be more open about their ageplay tendencies. Is someone I know and love ABDL?

On the way home I wound up wetting again. I was still reliving my messing accident and didn't notice until I went to pull my diaper down and hop in the shower. Besides cleaning my body, the hot shower also cleared my head of the fearful fluttering mess it had become. I got out of the shower feeling a mix of pride, shame, and arousal. I put on my favorite lacy panties and a comfy tube bra and crawled into bed, where I fell asleep after a very fulfilling masturbation session. Anywho, I kinda want to do something there involving abdl that I wouldn’t normally be able to do either here in my hometown, or with my girlfriend. I’m not even sure what I want to do but I want to feel that thrill, if you know what I’m talking about. Obviously I don’t want to get arrested or anything, so I’m not gonna walk around in just a tshirt and a diaper. But are there other things I can do that minimally will give me that thrill? These are just a few examples I’ve come up with so far: Others enjoy the feeling of adult diapers but have no medical need for them. There are various psychological theories as to why this is, including imprinting and James Money’s lovemap theory. Even so, there isn’t much research into the area. Where do ABDLs wear adult diapers?As the saying goes with the media, "There is no news like bad news." For this reason, a large amount of the public is misinformed about ABDL and ageplay as a community.