All very good information, but what about her bad habits? She’s human and she’ll have them too. Will she be able to “man up” and honestly say she may not be the best at handling money for example? Or will she just not say anything and head to the casino for a gambling spree? The latter is more likely – and on that one point the whole FLR plan falls apart. Partners need to be well aware of each other’s capabilities and the best person for handling each task. It still may end up with him doing household chores, but at least he is an equal partner instead of a slave. He doesn’t have to lose his self respect. Being handcuffed to the kitchen pole naked for up to 30 minutes while she gets to relax watching favorite shows and sipping wine Which all goes to show, that one basic rule for a sub in one D/s relationship isn’t the same for another. Thank you darling, you give me exactly what I need exactly when I need it. You know me so well. Please, may I have ten more, harder than the first."

Some enjoy stripping their mate of their manhood entirely. Forcing you man into wings, dresses and heels. This is also a common fetish. Your every waking moment shall be spent advancing my life and improving my life. This will be a detriment to your advancements. If making my life better comes with the consequence of making yours worse, this is something you accept without hesitation One of the biggest parts of the appeal of D/s sex to subs is how it makes them feel desired. A lot of women fantasize about being utterly desirable to their partners. However, you should also remember that your role as a dominant is to care for and help your sub grow as a person. And therefore you probably want some rules for your sub which are designed to encourage that.Without further ado, here are some examples of good rules for subs you can start incorporating into your dom sub relationship. She’s ready and waiting for you to set her some rules Who are sub rules REALLY for? This is one of the most intimate forms of dominance. Penetrating your mans arse encompasses many of the core values of this guide; dominance, humiliations, affection, pain, submission and more. William thought about blue lakes and green meadows and anything else he could to keep from dropping his hands to his butt cheeks and rubbing out the terrible sting from his bruised posterior. And if I was in a longer term Dom sub relationship then I would add more rules to ensure both my sub wa a growing as a person, as well as the relationship. Fortunately, you’re in the right place to get started. Read on, and we’ll tell you everything you need to know about being a Dom and how to train your sub to give you the pleasure you deserve. What is a Dom?

Many people enjoy giving up control to their Dom as they appreciate instructions and boundaries in bed. The Dom takes full responsibility for how good or bad the sex is — the sub’s only job is to do what the Dom tells them. There is also a school of thought that punishments should not be used in online relationships at all. As we mentioned earlier, when explaining the concept of ‘scenes,’ Dom-sub relationships often extend outside of the bedroom. BDSM play allows us to temporarily indulge all our naughtiest fantasies and break free of these limitations. The idea of doing something that is in some way wrong, morally or otherwise, is utterly thrilling. Power Dynamics are ExcitingIf I lived with a sub then I would include more rules (these only really work if you live together, hence why I don’t currently use them) such as: House rules. If you enjoy a BDSM dynamic out of the bedroom then having rules for the house is very fun. These rules can be part sexual (e.g. making your submissive strip for you when she enters the house), part assistive (e.g. making you dinner, giving you a massage), part helpful (e.g. helping you with everyday tasks). It’s up to you as the Dom! Put his cum in the freezer into ice cubes and than have fun (tell him he can either have it melt in his mouth or ass William hung his head in shame and stared down at his flaccid penis. He was embarrassed that he couldn't achieve a manly boner and had to stand in the corner like a punished school boy. All right honey, let's finish up your punishment spankings, then you can start working on making your messy on the plate. You know that plywood board in the corner out in the garage? Go get it, please."