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Anal toys: Although cisgender women don’t have prostates, there are still a lot of nerve endings in and around the anus that make it a pleasurable area for many women. This may actually be a bonus for lots of people, as you can use the Wand to create temperature sensation play. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Pop on some water-based lubricant and strap in for a wild ride – your body won’t know what hit it when you’re leaking fluid and shaking all over the bed in pleasure. This practice is twice as important for toys made from porous materials such as TPR and TPE elastomers.Use nail clippers and a file to make sure your fingernails don’t have any sharp or jagged edges—this is especially important for the index finger you’ll be using. It takes a lot of practice to find what works for you, but the stiff heaviness of the steel puts A LOT of pressure on your anal pleasure zone.

Combining air and suction, the Satisfyer Pro 2 creates a unique sensation on the external clitoris that's as close to real-life oral sex as can be. Designed to produce an erotic “come hither” motion , this device makes it feel like someone is giving you a sexy internal massage with their fingers.

While sex-toy newbies might be intimidated by a solid-metal toy, our testers loved the stainless steel this toy is made from. Some users said that the toy had a bit of a learning curve and that they would have liked some instructions (see the video link above), while others said it was instantly intuitive.