Here is the main issue: When dealing with potential parallels Sandmel’s warnings against “parallelomania” are very, very helpful. It is, of course, very interesting to delve into the world of Greco-Roman sexual norms as it is mediated by brothel art and graffiti, and at this level of abstraction (i.e. “sexual norms”) there will be obvious similarities, as there would be with any author writing about sex. This by itself does not constitute a real parallel. The vagina is a wondrous body part that can self-lubricate, expand (or contract) to accommodate a penis (ordildo) of just about any size and then return to its normal state. It can also usher humans into the world. Unfortunately, this pleasure-providing, life-ushering body part does not contain many nerve endings, especially compared to its tiny neighbor. It is also possible to injure yourself in an oral sex position. Some complications that might arise during an encounter include causing trauma to your partner’s genital area. Women may experience changes in the pH of their vagina after an oral sex encounter, which might cause some irritation. How to Explore Oral Sex Positions with Your Partner The harsh translations throughout this blog intend to reflect the original crudeness of the authors who wrote them.

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Please note that while Kerner’s book is written for men, his advice works for women who perform cunnilingus too. First: Put your partner at ease Words like “sinful”, “unnatural”, “perverse”, “degrading”, “degeneration”, “transgression”, etc. reflect the points of view of the various ancient authors, and not my own.If trouble with intimacy or your relationship with your sexuality keeps you from enjoyingoral sexand you’re ready to stop missing out on toe-curling orgasms working with a sex therapist or coach may help. Schedule your FREE Intimacy Recovery Discovery Calltoday to talk with Soribel Martinez, LCSW, to express your concerns, clarify your sexual health goals, and make a plan to reconnect you with pleasure. It’s not the first time we’ve seen our favourite actors perform oral sex. And it’s certainly not the first time the internet has lost its mind about seeing it played out either. Similar things happened when Adam Driver sang into Marion Cotillard in Annette, and when Ryan Gosling dove face first into Michelle Williams in Blue Valentine, earning the film an 18 rating. To give woman cunnilingus you need to have guts. Most men always avoid going that direction. The truth of the matter is, all women love cunnilingus. Your decision of learning the art of cunnilingus and performing it on her will make her stay by your side forever. Cunnilingus gives a woman the satisfaction she really wants. It always makes the woman feel like she is in a heaven of her own. Due to the intense pleasure, your woman will always keep asking for more from you. Here are some tips on how to give cunnilingus to your woman. If you want to receive oral sex but feel self-conscious for any reason, Calvert suggests getting to know your own body. ‘Think about your relationship with your genitals – what do you feel about your vulva? What do you feel about oral sex and receiving pleasure? When having sex, practice staying in the body, and in the present.’

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The feelings generated by different oral sex positions can vary from person to person. Below are descriptions of some oral sex positions. Myth: Whoever is face-to-vagina with you is thinking, "Damn, what is UP with her labia, I liked the ones on the last woman I was with so much more." Learning what your partner likes when it comes tooral sexcan be complicated. What feels good one day may be too much or not enough stimulation the next. Even though sexual needs change, there are generally a few places avulva-owner enjoys consistent stimulation.Calvert says many women and vulva-having people have internalised negative messages about their genitals, sex and pleasure. ‘They may be uncomfortable about receiving oral sex because it puts them in the spotlight and they feel less in control. They may feel pressure to perform to please their partner – pressure to orgasm,’ she adds. This gap exists because we’ve learned from religion and society that women aren’t supposed to be as sexual as men, so we never bother to learn bout female sexual pleasure. Sex education classes discuss male orgasm because it’s necessary for reproduction, but there is no mention of female pleasure or orgasms. Hearst UK is the trading name of the National Magazine Company Ltd, 30 Panton Street, Leicester Square, London, SW1Y 4AJ. Registered in England. All Rights Reserved. This word is notoriously difficult to translate, but likely refers to the receptive (passive) male partner during anal sex. The cure for the orgasm gap is pleasure-focused sex education. Sex is a biological need, and sexual pleasure is your birthright. If we’re all educated adequately about sexual anatomy, pleasure, and sexual mindset, we can close the orgasm gap.Cunnilingusis one way to make that happen.

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This is one article that attempts to discuss human sexuality through a religious viewpoint. It got me thinking about the history of the Bible. The King James Version is not the first version of the Bible. If I remember my religious history correctly, it was like the third or fourth interpretation. It was censored and edited by the church prior to it’s completion. The church was all powerful in the later days of the Dark Ages. I wonder what the previous versions of the Bible prior to the KJV had to say on these subjects of sexual behavior. Ness Cooper, a sex and relationship expert and clinical sexologist, tells Mashable that while watching more real depictions of cunnilingus is sure to make most women feel more empowered, there is still a sizeable gap in what we’re seeing and how we’re interpreting it. "In the past, there's been a lot of negativity around female pleasure sex scenes, often highlighting pain, which has meant that many sexual acts that women may enjoy have become stigmatised and shamed," she explains. "This means that individuals can struggle more when talking about pleasure, and when they do decide to explore it, they can be unnecessarily worried or stressed about it, making the experience less enjoyable. But bringing more awareness to how pleasurable these acts can be through various media can help reduce stigma, shame, and barriers even around sexual discrepancies," she says. Hi Raymond, thanks for the comment(s). However, I think you misrepresent me on a couple of points. Here is my thesis: “Importantly, this is not to say that (1) Paul is not discussing female to female sexual activity in v. 26 as Miller argues (perhaps Paul is…), or that (2) female to female sexual activity would not have been an object of ridicule similar to passive oral and anal sex (for surely it was), rather I want to briefly show how using passive male to female sexual acts in Romans 1:26 could have served Paul’s argument well and why it should be considered more widely among scholars.” I do not claim to have THE correct interpretation (in fact, I am skeptical myself!), but rather I wanted to push against the consensus that assumes female to female sexual activity in Romans 1:26. I’m arguing that male to female passive acts (like cunnilingus or passive anal sex) should not be dismissed so easily…though neither should the other positions.

If you’re the giver and want to make sure yourvulva-owning partner is down for a bit ofcunnilingus, hereare some ways to ask (consent is sexy). No sexual or genital act is explicitly described in the Bible other than Onan’s intentionally spilling (literally: destroying, wasting) his semen on the ground. In all other instances the reader is expected or assumed to know the explicit details. Why shouldn’t we think that Paul might adapt his message to fit his Roman audience (it does not mean he needs to believe it)…or, at least, be conversant enough to combat it? He seems to be at home in other Greco-Roman sexual practices (e.g. cultic prostitution in the Corinthian correspondence). You can also use the labia to massage the clit by gently pressing the lips together and kneading the clit between your fingers,” said Tribby. “Putting firm pressure on the mons pubis (the mound) and incorporating circular motions will also help to awake the nerves.”