best you can do atm i guess is see a doc for your symptoms and talk to a counselor about the event. DON’T accept that you are the reason for their drinking or any requests for you to change your behaviour. An alcoholic partner may say that they’ll cut down if you don’t nag them, tell anyone or put pressure on them. Remember that this isn’t your fault, and that the person would be battling with an alcohol problem whether or not they were with you They may also report feeling strong cravings for alcohol, and they seem to be unable to resist the urge to drink, to the point that their entire life centers around alcohol. In such cases, you are forced to leave an alcoholic spouse if they show no signs of improvement. Reasons someone stays in a relationship with an alcoholic

Educate yourself on what your partner is going through, what treatments may be available to them, and what resources they may be able to access when they’re ready to get help. Being prepared for when they are ready to talk about their problem may make you feel more at ease.Oh, and I nearly forgot. As you both got so wasted and so drunk, and assuming it wasn't a deliberate drugging on someone else's part, a good place for you two to go is to an AA meeting. although you mention a habit of passing out, in case there drugs involved in getting the two of you unconscious, the ship has sailed long ago.

DON’T give up. Remember that you are not alone and you can handle today. There are people who care about you and who will support you so that things can get better The Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion (which is a division of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services) offers a few tips to aid these conversations. 3 You find that you are mentally and physically exhausted from the effects of alcoholic behavior in relationships . Acamprosate can be used after a person has stopped drinking and wants to remain abstinent. Acamprosate can help to prevent drinking but may be less effective in people who continue to drink or use other drugs. First figure out what it means to you OP, let it sink in and go over the details in your mind. You know they slept together, there is absolutely no doubt about that. Ending up naked in bed with another man is sex, regardless if he penetrated her or not stuff happened.

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DON’T talk to them when they’re drunk, they are unlikely to take in what you have to say. Anger and alcohol are often linked too, so they may become defensive and angry when you approach them, making it an even more challenging situation I dont know what to think here, my wife insists its not the case but did admit to flirting with him, those guys insist it was mutual. My wife doesnt want to file any case against them, and I am at a loss. Only one thing is clear to me, my wife put her friends sexual life ahead of our married life otherwise why go to a strangers house after midnight? That is clear to me even if everything else is a mystery.