Most submissive men are looking for the wrong thing. They see an aggressive bitchy woman and get excited. She is probably NOT dominant. She is probably just a bitch. One needed personality trait in a dominant female is empathy. They don’t always dress in leather.… A young lady visiting a hotel is hit on by a very butch lesbian woman who teaches her how to worship and serve her sexual needs.

You are either a worthless kinkster who will never have a Domme and who only looks at pictures or you are a man on a mission who takes an active part in the revolution. The latter eventually finds a Domme to serve. Which man are…Dear fellow male subs. Start thinking about how you can empower and serve women in meaningful ways in your everyday life. Who knows. It may just deliver the lifestyle you dream about. Comment below about what you have done in the last week to put… Our goal is to make Female Led Relationships as socially acceptable as gay marriage. We want to empower women. You can help us by signing up for Ms V’s wonderful updates. We want to show investors that there exists a large audience for a movie…

That’s what you focus on, huh? Interesting. It amused Cass and she decided to file it away for another time. A submissive in many ways is the one who actually holds the true power in the relationship. It takes an incredibly strong person to be a submissive. In fact, I have curated a set of guidelines for baby girl to help structure her mindset and outlook for the day. When she feels lost, or unhappy, or struggling to find her inner peace, she can turn to those guidelines for help. One of those guidelines says: “I shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please my Master.” I’ve always felt this was important because it takes a ton of strength and commitment to be a submissive. You have to know yourself and your needs and be able to communicate them, but also know your Dominant’s needs and be able to identify them as they arise. It’s not easy being a submissive, but it can be incredibly rewarding.Perhaps it’s easier to say what a Dominant is NOT. A Dominant, or a Dom (male) / Domme (female), is not a self-annointed title we bestow upon ourselves. It is not an excuse to tie someone up, spank them, degrade them, or use them however you please. Just because you call yourself a Dom does not in fact make you one. Being called a Dominant is a gift your submissive or submissives give you based on the care, protection, guidance, and love you show for them. It is earned. A Dominant is a listener, a communicator, a care taker, a protector, a leader, an earner of trust. A Dominant is selfless and will always put the needs of their submissives before their own. It is a great deal of responsibility! You, as a Dominant, are responsible for someone’s happiness and satisfaction, for understanding their needs and making sure they are met. Whether you are a full time Dom or a play time Dom, all of these qualities hold true. Be sure you are up to the task and take it seriously. Women are competitive. Once the Queendom begins to flourish, they will compare slaves. It’s what they do. The Queendom will likely give certificates, maybe brands, to designate the level of training a slave has received. I can hear a woman saying, “Oh I have a…