When they made the short trek home from school, Mom sent him up to change and told him to bring back the paddle and be quick about it. I stood in the corner, tears still streaming down my face, my bum burning bright red as daddy lay down on the bed and turn the tv on, only he had it on mute, so I could hear him telling me what a baby I was, how only babys got food all over their faces, and cried when they got spanked. We were at our wits’ end with him, when one day he bit Polly’s wrist and she instinctively grabbed him and slapped the back of his thighs three or four times.

I realize that most daughters get bare bottom spankings, andDebAnn gets plenty of those, but I've also found that she benefitsgreatly from some unusual forms of discipline.As daddy was saying this, he had secured one ankle to the bed, and had moved to the other one, making sure my legs were drawn apart, not to tight as to hurt, but far enough I could not bring them together. I know I had talked to my daddy about some of the things I fantasized about, but they were just fantasies, I never expected him to actually do them.

If uncertain, reconsider bare bottom spanking and spank over the child's clothing instead, and don't spank in any ritualized manner, including forcing them to bend over your lap execution style.A few days later, when my visit was almost over, Kate and my Dad sat all three of us kids down and made an announcement – they were getting married.