I prefer weighted butt plugs, and their Snug Plug is great for extended play. I also love their Novice Plug, which is app-controlled and allows your partner to get in on the action,” says Saynt. As I continue to stretch my hole, I think I'll definitely go for the SP 6 and 7. The weight makes a big difference and, for me, elevates the experience quite a bit. The best rule of thumb is that beginners should start with a toy that's smaller in size. Small plugs should be roughly the size of a finger or two for easy insertion, so you can gently stretch the tissue around your anus. Eventually, you may want to work up to larger plugs, which can get as big as a fist. Material: Only use butt plugs that are made with body safe materials that are non-porous. So look for toys that are made from silicone, glass, and metal, as those are easy to clean and sanitize. In general, avoid toys that are made from PVC, which could contain toxic chemicals like phthalates. The plug itself is made from the smoothest silicone and there isn’t a seam in sight. It really does feel lovely to the touch. I’m typing one handed right now cos my other hand is obsessively stroking the plug.

Lube doesn’t just help you get it in, it’ll also help make the butt plug more comfortable as it moves around in there. And it’s gonna move as you move.Besides, sex toys do more than help people have a more intense O. "They can relieve stress and increase communication during sex," says certified sex therapist Janet Brito, PhD, founder of the Sexual Health School. If your partner has limited mobility, sex toys can also offer "intimacy and connection without physical discomfort," Brito adds. Dr. Fleming suggests choosing a small metal or glass butt plug, specifically, because they’re nonporous (so pathogens, like certain bacteria, have a more challenging time settling into the plug) and easy to clean. Both materials are also safe to use with any type of lube, whether water-, oil- or silicone-based. What are some tips for trying anal play for the first time?

Janet Brito, PhD, is a certified sex therapist based in Honolulu, Hawaii, and the founder of the Sexual Health School.

The Best Long-Distance Butt Plug: Lovense Edge 2

Okay, there's no ignoring this one! The 5 provided a sort of radiating sensation thanks to its size partially filling up my rectum and pressing against my prostate. Coupled with the weight of the plug, it made me randomly throb and flex my anus whether I was standing, sitting, or in bed. This was way too stimulating to wear to bed so I took it out after around 90 mins. I'll have to get used to the sensation first before I can get a decent night's sleep wearing this one. The 5 is near my current limit, but it was still pretty easy to insert thanks to the shape of the tip and lube.

If you’ve got a butt plug that you already love and find comfortable, that could be a good start. If not, start from scratch and spend some time getting to know each other before your extended rendezvous. Finally, Dr. Fleming stresses that anal play isn’t something you get right into. “I can’t recommend enough the importance of only introducing any anal play when you’re already highly aroused,” she says. When you’re aroused, your body relaxes—including your anal sphincter. So the more turned on you are, the more enjoyable anal sex will be. Sex toys can amp up the benefits of solo play, too. "Research suggests that masturbation can boost the immune system, reduce stress, and help you sleep better," says Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, founder and director of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. You’ll want to lube up your anus and the butt plug for insertion and removal. You’ll also want to lube up throughout the day to avoid irritation. I’d stay away from any that have a smaller plug, as this may get lost in your anus after a day of running errands or heading to work,” says Saynt.

Hey folks, I spent most of Sunday plugged. In the morning, I popped in the Snug Plug 3. After lunch, I switched to the 4, and then a few hours before bed to the 5. Here's some observations that I hope will be useful.