If you get a bad case of the runs or have an actual bowel movement, then stopping to properly clean yourself up and out is a good idea. Apply a liberal amount of lube to your finger or toy, as well as around your anal opening. By liberal I mean basting yourself up like you would a turkey on Thanksgiving. Try a hot bath, a massage, or some foreplay to help you get your stretch on. Be generous with the lube Size matters, but here are some other things to consider when choosing toys to stretch your anus. Material Pooping before play will allow you to go deeper and help you focus on the task at hand. If you’re still pretty shallow, consider a douche

It’s no secret that poop comes out of the anus. Most fecal matter sits higher up in your rectum, but anal play can bring on the urge to poop.They come in all sorts of lengths and widths, ranging from small ( like this one) for anal training amateurs to some pretty intimating monster-sized plugs ( like this one) for seasoned pros. First, you want to be sure to choose a material that’s body-safe. Look for toys that are phthalate and BPA-free.

Slow and steady wins the butt play race. Get ready for insertion by lightly pressing your toy against your hole with minimal pressure.

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See a doctor if there’s a lot of blood, bleeding continues for more than a couple of minutes, or is accompanied by pain. What should you do if there’s poop? If you’re feeling actual pain — like a severe, sharp, or throbbing pain — then slowly pull out. You can try again in a couple of days with a smaller toy or after being sufficiently relaxed.

Using a numbing agent increases your chances of going too far too fast and causing potentially serious damage.

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Butt plugs are another story since they’re meant to remain inside you. You want enough weight for the plug to stay put and not shoot from your butt with a sneeze, but it also needs to be comfortable. Vibrations and other variations Oil-based lubes generally aren’t recommended because they break down latex, and that’s a major no-no if you’re using condoms or latex gloves on your fingers or toys.

Anal dilators, also called rectal dilators, are medical devices used to widen the rectum after anorectal surgery to help make passing stool easier.Dilators — which you can find online — used for pleasure are similar, though the goal is slightly different, obvs. Healthline has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions, and medical associations. We avoid using tertiary references. You can learn more about how we ensure our content is accurate and current by reading our editorial policy.