For the longest time, however, my adoration for men in specific boxers has been mired in shame. I grew up thinking sexuality was bad, beastly, and unspeakable. Queer in a conservative town, I thought I would rather die than have anyone know.

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You can easily see beauty in anyone. Still, there is something special about beholding it in those you’re physically attracted to. When you admire a being’s uniqueness AND their bodily appeal to your senses — that’s hot. Your breath may get increasingly taken away, by escalating layers of what you like. As for my tastes:Perhaps the mountain of sexual embarrassment that overshadowed my youth is what makes me so passionate, today, about sharing the absurdly revealing details of my healing journey with the internet. Here’s why I’ve been ashamed I admire guys’ undies I was like an ice cream fanatic who progressed from being a chocolate snob, to soon a double-chocolate-chip-cookie-dough-with-rainbow-sprinkles snob! You could say I’m boxersexual. I grew up with an intense fetish for men’s boxer shorts. Vibrant plaids were my sin. And oh how I love it when plaid boxers puffs above the top of trousers, peeking out at unsuspecting moments.