I’m not necessarily suggesting Josephine has to do exactly what Wanda says, but you shouldn’t ask for advice on an issue unless you're willing to hear what the person has to say, and then, take it into consideration. How might newsrooms create an ethical framework around their engagement work, similar to a code of conduct for staff relationships? “Engagement” is becoming more central to newsroom revenue models, and with it comes a lot of thorny issues that start with the question: “why exactly are you trying to engage the public?” If the answer doesn’t include “to learn and in-turn create more useful content for the public” than it’s worth interrogating the purpose of that work and the forces at play calling for something else. The following is the beginning of a draft of such a framework, drawn from a SRCCON 2018 workshop led by Jennifer Brandel of Hearken and Andrew Haeg of GroundSource . This piece is co-authored.

From personal experience, I’ve found it easier to say my opinion and then move on from the situation. I can’t say I didn’t try help, and now, the ball is in my friend's court as to whether he or she takes what I’ve said to heart or not. Researchers estimate people have 60.000 thoughts a day of which 60% to 80% are negative thoughts. Like I can't do it, it won't work, I am not worth it, I am not smart enough and so on. Slooww down and read the title again. That’s right, I said A S K-H O L E. Let’s explore what this may be.Suh, fam? Today we’re diving deep with some of the most lit terms from 2017. Be warned: some of these terms have been around since before MMXVII, but our Slang.org experts have made sure to include only words that have either had a revival or are at least relevant to current slang-biosphere. On this year […] The truth is that journalism has for time immemorial been in the business of mass dissemination and publishing. Engagement, such as we think about it now, has historically consisted mainly of letters to the editor. Codes of conduct related to who to publish, how much to edit, ensuring balance, etc. had to be developed and routinized as a result. The term in itself is 'Negative" and although I understand what your saying, our minds have "no room" for any negative thoughts or phrases as they will root like a wild weed in a field. To a certain extent, I can understand the need to verbally process, as I am a verbal processor myself, but I do think that there is a time and place for genuinely asking advice, and then, for just asking a friend to listen. Are you an askhole? Do you spend most of your time asking other people questions? Or, do you try to figure out some of the easy answers yourself (or on Google)?

Ethics begin with how we treat each other as individuals, so as part of our SRCCON workshop exploring this framework, we started by exploring answers to the questions: “What makes a good relationship? What are the actions people take in good relationships?” Participants jotted down those actions of their friends, colleagues, family members and more. Actions includes things like: always responding to text messages, listening without judgment, being there for them in a crisis. It’s time for more marijuana slang! With all the recent news about cannabis legalization, we want you all equipped with the hip hemp lingo. It appears the part one of the article has made it around the circle, and it’s your turn with the second installment. Remember: read-read-pass, so share this article with another budding […] It comes down to the seriousness of the topic in question and the seriousness of the answer for which the askhole is looking. Each of these scenarios presented teams with an opportunity to drive compelling editorial content, and to build new audiences; and each also contained great challenges, including reaching across racial and class divides, sustaining engagement over time, drawing audience and community members out on intensely personal issues, and building and growing audience without treating communities as pit mines from which we extract precious stories and insights. Your editorial mandate: Create a sustained way to receive actionable insight from communities your newsroom is currently not well-serving.

Tip #2:  Have grace & generosity

Additionally, askhole victims (or just people who are askholed) need to identify boundaries. My mom always told us “it takes two,” when it comes to conflict, so not all the blame can be placed on an askhole. These cases are perfectly simple and easy to distinguish. In a free hour, when our power of choice is untrammelled and when nothing prevents our being able to do what we like best, every pleasure. Tip #2: Have grace& generosity How many of you carry some of this head trash that asking questions is annoying, or that it is somehow what less intelligent people do. We are striving to be noted as the expert all the time so we continue to avoid asking questions like we should. We might have great intentions organizing a community convening. But we don’t spend the time and care to make sure the right people were invited in to speak, leaving key communities and perspectives out of the conversation, effectively silencing them. Slang squad! It’s time for some tea, fam — we’re going all out on another roll-call, and this time we’re focusing on the dankness that is Millennial slang. Recently, we’ve been scoping plenty of sketches and songs that are trying to yeet in this kind of slang left and right, often to great comedic effect. […]

Where possible, we should let communities in on the editorial process — develop different levels of contribution and editing to give the community ownership over the stories that are theirs to tell First, admit to times when you and your team have acted like askholes. The first step to not being an askhole is to admit that we are capable of being an askhole (This should be on a t-shirt somewhere). Don’t feel ashamed. We’ve all done it. I’ve been an askhole on many occasions, both personally and professionally. It’s important for us all to reflect on listening processes in the past and analyze where we screwed up. Did we include the right people? Did we follow through? Vow to not make the same mistakes. Silakan gunakan lisensi komersial dengan membeli melalui link ini : https://noahtype.com/askhole-font/By choosing to only ask wise people in our lives who have our best interests at heart and are willing to give us answers and advice that we may or may not want to hear, we may limit the quantity of answers we receive. But, as a result, we gain a better quality and richness. Becoming an askhole. What is an askhole? An askhole is someone who always asks for advice when dealing with life’s issues, is given good and positive advice, and never once follows through. Yet, the askhole has the audacity to turn around and complain when the issue happens again. Thus, confirming the askhole will then again come asking for advice, and never change. So that. That is a fast way to lose all your friends. Don’t be an askhole.