There has been a few I tried to not ask about their past and they claimed they loved me to only find out she had sex with another dude while together. Express an action that happened before another action in the past. (Action that happened before using QKHT – happened after using QKD) Oh, so you think the couple in this letter decided before marriage that they would share their number with each other, as well as all the details of their sexual histories? Where do you get that impression, because it certainly is not explicitly made, and I’m not sure how else you can make an argument that the wife was being “deceitful” by not sharing all the details of her sexual history with her husband. As for comparing finding out sexual details that your spouse kept secret to finding out that your spouse was a rapist and child molester: I just can’t. I mean, I really can’t. Did you vote for Trump? This seems like the kind of logic Trump-voters might use. After 23 years of marriage my wife finally came clean to me regarding why she didn’t want to have sex in our marriage and why she was cold and disconnected throughout. When we met she revealed on her own that she had only had 3 sexual partners before me. This year she came to me in tears and revealed that the number was over 10 in 3 years and that 6 months before we met she had an abortion that she regretted. She had always told me that she practiced safe sex and she was proud that I was the only man ever ejaculate inside her. My wife revealed to me that due to her horrible emotional state I had suffered the effects. It's like women still trying to prove how "normal" and "likeable" they are by spitting out a bunch of words that they think do that- isn't this what I'm supposed to want?? Do you love me yet?? Do you approve of my totally normal, not weird beautiful character who is better than everyone?? Is this what you wanted from me? Why are we still trying to please men and judgmental women who were never going to like you anyways??

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My wife and I started seeing each other when I was 18, she was 17. Things went very fast! We fell in love, and within a couple weeks, we were sleeping together (the only one I have ever been with). She told me right away that she had been with someone else and had a miscarrage a year earlier, partly I feel because we worked together and someone else would have said something. It bothered me, but I was in love with her. Now I get to make money on my own terms with someone I really enjoy hanging out with, which is great because right from the beginning I knew I wanted to spend as much time as possible with this person. It sounds to me like you’re confusing hyperbole with lying. Your wife told her friends she’d always been upfront with you. I’d bet a lot that if that’s what she’s saying to her closest friends when she thinks you’re not listening, it’s true. Saying, “Oh, I’d have more kids than I could count” is the kind of exaggerated hyperbole people engage in when they’re having a raunchy conversation over drinks. It’s not literally true. It’s a way of talking to your best girlfriends. Your wife said nothing whatsoever to make you think she hasn’t been honest with you, and in fact confirmed that she has. Just because she's experimented sexually in her past, before meeting her now husband, doesn't mean she's going to cheat on him!!" In a commercial transaction even a court could regard such behaviour as having been in bad faith and award damages to the other. This isn't such a thing but you can frame it with that thinking and the fact you've made him feel like a he's been a fool for years. You have ** easily to other men who he now thinks you regarded or desired more than you ever did him.The crushing Golden Corral junior employee is a franchisee today and married with adult children. She actualizes her unrequited youthful crush by having affairs with her junior employees. If something is done or happens till or until a point in time, it happens over a duration of time, starting before that time and continuing up to that point: Y’all are idiots! No one owes a new partner or husband any explanation of their past ** lives. It was none of your business then or now. And to question ”did the girl I fell in love with really exist?” Yes dumbass you fell in love w her w o knowing her past. You’ve been together over 20 years and y’all loved each other until you learned of what she did before you.

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You see - threre are still places like Eastern Europe, Africa, Asia etc where you can get 8 LA without slutty past and much less bitchy.What difference could it possibly make. You were presumably happy to be married for 10 years prior to learning this. Presumably you had a good understanding of the person your wife was at the time she told, having 10 years of marriage to get to know. After learning the changed number, you’ve been with her another 10 years, so it means even less now than the nothing it was 10 years ago. You compromised for him. Why can her boyfriend compromise for her??!! Why does the woman ALWAYS have to follow her… The only reason why I'm still with her is our youngest child is disabled with complex medical needs and we dont have the luxury of simply upending everything.

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My wife didn't get quite as wild as yours, but had a somewhat promiscuous phase when she was younger. My wife had been with 14 sexual partners before we met when we were both 22. Now, by some standards, that's not high at all. However, 11 of them came in a little under a year. Two were relationships in high school that lasted around a year, and one was a relationship in college that ended about 3 months before we met. Yes, 11 in 11 months would qualify as promiscuous, but I basically attribute that to the burst of freedom that college can provide. Plus, I wasn't exactly celibate before we met either (7).Wow – lots of comments that I agree and disagree with. When entering a Marriage, Love is not the only binder, Trust – Honesty also is required to love. If one is not truthful then there is no Honesty, without Honesty there is no trust. It's been a number of years, but I've got another ragefest simmering, and once again, its over a group of books written by women, I would imagine largely for women (sadly), rooted deeply in the imagination of women. I may be slightly more equipped to understand it, but still find myself sputtering. I'll try to articulate as best I can, though.