It’s been almost twenty years since I last saw her. But I still have the sketch I made—a shy girl with fierce eyes that dared people to do the unthinkable. In the 1980s, my aunt babysat for the Italian family next door in a small town in New Jersey where everyone knew their neighbors. Well, fast forward to when the dad — along with 21 others — was arrested for being part of the 'Pizza Connection,' a mafia conspiracy involving the Sicilians, the Bonnano crime family, and 1.6 billion dollars worth of heroin. He'd told my grandfather he was a cheese importer!" We cuddled up and she fell asleep. I was getting very turned on stroking her hair and wanting to kiss her, but I just covered her up and went downstairs.

We all go through phases in life when we are curious about a lot of things—a girl may be curious about the body of another girl, but that doesn’t make her a lesbian, even if they take a bath together. I never wanted to know why she wished to see me naked. We never chose that moment to step into the bathroom of a girl's hostel together. We did it because we were curious. The Baby-Sitters Club is a middle grade series of novels written by Ann M. Martin (and later some ghost writers) and published by Scholastic. If somehow you’re here and you don’t know, The Baby-Sitters Club follows a group of middle school best friends: Kristy, Mary Anne, Stacey, Claudia, and Dawn. Later, other members are added to that club, but that’s our core group. Martin started the series in 1985 with the novel Kristy’s Great Idea, in which everyone’s favorite tomboy, Kristy Thomas, comes up with the idea to start a babysitting club with her friends. Needless to say, it was, in fact, a great idea, and the rest is history.

She said: “Kiss me.” I remember her opening her mouth as her lips tried to close onto mine. I froze and pulled away from her. “What are you doing?” I said, trying to laugh it off. When Mum and Dad came home everything was like normal but now I meet her once a week at her house when her husband plays bowls. We have sex and she tells me she loves me. I love it but I’m worried what my parents would say. DEIDRE SAYS

Deborah Evans, 46, told Katrina Holmes ‘you are gay and you will always be gay’, even though the young girl was only interested in boys. I was a very popular babysitter when I was about 15, and often I would have kids from two or three different families at once. I didn't care because I got triple the pay! Well, I was recently told why I always had multiple groups of kids like that — turns out the small town I lived in had a swingers club, and I was their go-to babysitter!" It was only after a few days that we discovered what was going on—we were being called the lesbian couple. Someone in the hostel might have seen us stepping out of the bathroom.Whatever is going on in her marriage, this relationship is wrong and in fact you’re going to tire of it before long. Show her just how mature you are and tell her you’re going to stop this affair now. BuzzFeed Bring Me Obsessed with travel? Discover unique things to do, places to eat, and sights to see in the best destinations around the world with Bring Me! It has taken so much courage and strength to speak out but I am no longer that frightened teenager. Rather than the usual vignettes (implied by the title of this Sweetheart Video series), filmmaker Dana Vespoli instead provides one continuous story, with Jessie Andrews well-cast as the babysitter. And Vespoli also casts herself in a major acting role. Well, my friend said that it was so weird because she never even saw or heard a baby any of the times she was there. No crying, no noises, nothing. Today, she wonders if there was even a baby at all..."