Xtasia is one of the UK's longest and most well established Swingers and Fetish clubs, located in the Midlands area. Since 2011 it has been under new ownership and has transformed into a unique complex of nightclub, pub and hotel, all behind closed doors. Run by folks who really know about adult lifestyles and alternative fetish requirements.

Especially this one gentleman from Scotland, who has come along with his female friend – I catch both of them in a swingers situation later that evening. When talking with a foreigner, many Chinese people will deny that the KTV girls are often prostitutes. I even meet some people that deny the existence of KTV girls whatsoever. They will argue that if there are so many KTV it’s because Chinese people love to sing. The stage shows are the stuff of lewd legend: Dita von Teese made her UK debut at TG; there are frequently hardcore body modification and manipulation demonstrations featuring everything from extreme piercings to contortion to people being suspended from ropes attached to hooks poked through their skin; and it’s not uncommon to see fireworks been set off from performers’ orifices, paint and milk being shot out of vaginas, and lasers shining from the bumhole of a trapeze artist. As we enter the main floor, the club’s social room, the atmosphere is mixed; some couples are sat huddled together on sofas, while others are eyeing each other up, and one lady is having a spin on the stripper pole.

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Guests can expect everything they'd expect at any of our other parties,’ Kiwi says, explaining that the team will be building a club with a dancefloor, playroom, garden, bar and wellness sanctuary in the festival. ‘We’ll be controlling it entirely – there won’t be any festival staff in the space whatsoever.’ Le Boudoir is a bring-your-own venue, and I suddenly regretted that we’d only armed ourselves with one bottle of wine.

Farah’s training focuses on identifying vulnerable people and recognising the signs of ingesting date-rape drugs. She wants a proper register of venues that have completed Ask for Angela training, and is advocating to ensure that queer, trans and non-binary voices are included. ‘If those things aren’t put into place, it's just another haphazard, government-shiny campaign that's not actually working on the ground,’ she says. The best dance clubs tend to specialize in a certain style of music. We're talking about Latin dance clubs where they mainly play salsa or tango music styles or even electronic dance clubs. This level of specialization allows you to know what you're getting into and tends to attract people who are much more into the music and the actual dancing (not just drinking and throwing their hands in the air).I leave Cassandra and the Master to do their thing, and venture outside to the smoking area, where I chat to a few of the guests.

Feeling somewhat awkward and out of place, I promptly apologise when I spank her, to which I’m met with kind laughter by both the woman and her partner.

To do this, you need to be very clear with each other what your relationship is and what your expectations are. The last thing you want is someone to think it's more serious than it is. You also want to take great pains to keep things just between the two of you. The fewer people that know about what you're doing the easier both of your lives will be. Records the default button state of the corresponding category & the status of CCPA. It works only in coordination with the primary cookie. The building used to be a bank, and owners of Le Boudoir have kept many of the original fittings, including the vault which, coincidentally, is home to the dungeon. Personally, I imagined them as places for exhibitionists, people with extreme sexual preferences and the odd perv, standing in the corner and w***ing himself off to the whole thing.

I can’t understand well the situation. However, I will say that generally Chinese people are really careful about the kids (they will never leave them with a people they don’t totally trust). Also women tend to be reluctant to meet their bosses in certain circumstances (recently many disturbing news about abuses appeared in the media). From Crossbreed ’s queer fetish raves to The Fox Den ’s 24-guest hedonistic dinner parties (complete with a four-course meal cooked by a private chef and after-dinner ‘play’ for dessert), the choice of sex-positive events in London is as mind-boggling as it is arousing. And with everything from popular underground DJs to luxury sex toys on offer, it’s the perfect set-up for a new generation to lube up and join the ride. ‘It used to be that people would come to explore the scene in their thirties and forties, but now we are seeing much younger people in their twenties,’ says Sinead, who’s been involved in the sex-positive community since 2015 and launched The Fox Den in June last year. All you have to do is select a circle of mates for the night, and you’ll be able to see precisely where they are on a map of the venue – right down to the exact toilet cubicle. If something does go wrong, you can hit SOS to immediately alert pals, and the time and location data is saved to help piece together what happened afterwards (useful for if you were drunk and your memory is a bit hazy, and you want to go to the police).It’s worth going just to look at the fashions; the dress code states that attendees shouldn’t even bother queuing for entry unless they’re wearing something that would turn heads and elicit stares on the street, so partygoers’ costumes will have your eyes on stalks (although that’s not where the ‘Garden’ name comes from; it’s a reference to a dark French novel about a sadist who likes to watch such horrors as flayings and crucifixions, juxtaposed against a beautiful outdoor setting in China).