When the TSA digs through your bag, there will be no gawking at this pretty, discreet setup (that comes in other colors). The anus does not self-lubricate, and the tissue of the sphincter and the rectum can easily tear with non-lubricated friction," says Cecilia Villero, a pleasure educator and consultant based in New York City. It's condom-safe and water-friendly for anywhere and everywhere play, and apparently it's multifunctional as a massage oil or moisturizer, but we all know why we're here. In fact, read the label to make sure the type of condom you're using is compatible with your lube, as some (even without oil) will degrade polyurethane as well.

We’ve cherry-picked the more simple and straightforward recipes we could find – no one wants to spend 4 hours slaving over a hot stove just to make a little booty lube. Plus, Astroglide X Silicone is also good for those with sensitive skin, as it's formal is made with non-irritating and hypoallergenic ingredients. This personal lubricant is made from 95% food grade organic aloe vera, it's infused with vitamin E, and it doubles as a moisturizer. It's safe to ingest orally and use with silicone toys, and since it comes in the form of a spray, a little will go a long way.

We didn’t need to reapply a lot like with other water-based lubes and it doesn’t dry and get all sticky. Reviewers love that it's organic, fragrance-free, safe to use with all condoms and toys, and totally mess-free—plus, it's blended with guava bark extract, which is a natural astringent and cleansing agent that'll give ya an antibacterial boost while you're getting down and dirty. Too much friction can irritate the delicate anal tissues and create microtears in the anus, increasing the risk of infection. But since not every lube is created equal, you're going to wanna make sure you keep a few things in mind.

My roommate spilled silicone lube on his bathroom floor and it literally took hours to clean up, this stuff washes off with soap and water. You get the staying power of a silicone lube, with all the compatibility of a water-based one,” she says. Aloe Vera gel, containing some preservatives and additives, so make sure that you’re not allergic to any of the ingredients. If your partner isn’t attuned to your body's cues, it’s especially important to vocalize what does and doesn’t feel good so they can respond accordingly. If you're on a budget: Durex makes an affordable silicone-based lube perfect for anal sex - Perfect Glide.

Whether you're putting toys, fingers, or penises inside the anus, you'll always benefit from the texture that lube creates. Avoid petroleum products like Vaseline, and skip natural oil-based lubricants like coconut oil, too, if you're using a condom. But, like finding the best vibrator for beginners, knowing what product to choose can be overwhelming. If you find yourself repeatedly tensing up, take a break and pick things back up if and when you feel ready to try again. It also comes with a little textured silicone lube koozie, helping to keep the bottle and product secured instead of spilling all over the floor.

Water-based lubes tend to be thicker because they have more ingredients, but as Villero points out, that doesn’t necessarily equate to quality.

That's because the rectum can suck things inside the body like a vacuum (unlike the vaginal canal, which ends with the cervix). It can be used safely for anal lubrication, but bear in mind that it is not condom-safe, so it can only be used for anal barebacking. The following products are household items which are cheap, readily available, and can be easily used as an anal lubricant.

They’re thin, slippery, and quite easy to wash off after sex, making them a solid, affordable option.Without anal lube, backdoor penetration of any kind—whether it be with a toy, a finger, or a penis—can be painful and even cause some mild bleeding afterward due to any tears in the sensitive anal canal tissue. The numbing agent is strong enough to make things comfortable but subtle enough to make everything very pleasurable. There will be less product for the body to absorb and flush out, which can create a better sexual experience. When the body is kept moisturized, as well as lubricated, it will help the body be able to stretch and allow those muscles to move," says Lisa Finn, a sex educator and product expert at Babeland. The agency reports that being "the bottom" is less safe than being "the top", because again, your rectum’s lining is thin, which can allow the virus to easily enter your body.