The videos include ones in which people flash the camera from a distance, partly obscured by a door, or peek a nipple around a corner. Some are close-up shots of someone's face, with an object in the foreground on the edge of the screen that appears to be their nipple. Others show nudity in the reflection of faucets or mirrors. It’s OK to have a body part we’re proud of. For some it’s their eyes, or their legs, or their large lips.

Isabelle Uren, sex expert at Bedbible, says there are a few things to keep in mind before launching right intro cleavage sex. Like with any sex act, it’s important to always discuss boundaries before jumping in. "You should let your partner know if you are happy for them to ejaculate on you or not, and if so, where," she says. In reality, cleavage sex can actually be a lot of fun. Even for the one with the boobs. Seriously. What is cleavage sex? This is yet another instance where a content moderation system is pitted against an entrepreneurial younger audience base,” said Liam McLoughlin, a lecturer at the University of Liverpool studying content moderation. “These moderators are often given seconds to decide if content is rule-breaking, and from the Foopah examples I’ve seen, it’s taken me minutes to actually spot. So even if the content is flagged by the filter, human moderators might not be able to keep up.” Others were concerned about the potential legal ramifications of creators exposing themselves to minors on the app, given TikTok’s comparatively young user base. Put simply, cleavage sex involves using your cleavage to stimulate a partner's penis or strap-on. As well as the physical sensation of feeling the soft warm breasts around their penis, cleavage sex is visually and psychologically very arousing, which is the main appeal for a lot of people. It's also a great way to get some variation in your sex life.

I’ve also watched my Aunt sadly pass away from breast cancer, and this past year I’ve seen my own mum battle with the horrid disease and come out the other side.

You take that first step and you’re greeted by beautiful friends who compliment you on your outfit, laugh with you about something that happened recently and introduce you to someone in the group you haven’t met before.Like with most new sex ventures, it’s important to keep the dialogue going so you’re both having fun. If a position’s not working for you, let your partner know you need to switch it up and try something different. When you’re new to a sex act, it’s natural for there to be some trial and error. I’m talking about that other feeling. The feeling of judgment, hostility and displacement. It’s coming from a female. Usually one with a partner nearby, and more often than not, she is someone you would consider a friend.

You take yourself off to the bathroom and take a long hard look in the mirror. Do I look like a slut? Am I trying too hard to get attention? You start questioning yourself over something that will later feel so trivial, but for tonight, sits on your shoulders like a terrible weight. For that reason, our idea of cleavage sex tends to conjure images of giant-breasted women doing near-impossible things with a penis in all manner of awkward positions as they over-prioritise stimulating the penis above all else. But porn isn't reflective of real life and cleavage sex doesn't have to always be focused on the receiver. To add more stimulation for the giving partner, Uren recommends using a wearable sex toy to get some stimulation while performing cleavage sex. "A panty vibrator, egg vibrator, or vibrating butt plug are great hands-free options," she says.I studied hard and earnt a place at university. I strived to gain my dream job and I’ve saved to travel to the most amazing places around the world. I’m not my boobs, they’re just something I like. There’s a common misconception that cleavage sex only works for those that have relatively big boobs, however, this couldn’t be further from the truth. No boobs are too small.

It's something that sex workers on TikTok are concerned about. Steph Oshiri, a Canadian adult content creator, tweeted that the Foopah challenge was a “bad look for us” and would have a negative impact on adult content creators’ ability to post safe-for-work content on TikTok in the future. “Next two weeks I’d expect to see a lot of accounts being banned or an update to guidelines,” Oshiri added. And, of course, if you enjoy dirty talk, it can really add to the psychological arousal of cleavage sex. It could be you telling your partner how hot they look between your breasts or them telling you how great it feels! Elsewhere, big breasts can make dressing for an event hard. If you wear something loose to avoid highlighting your boobs, the fabric tends to hang off them and make you seem larger. If you wear tight fabric around your boobs, you look more cinched in the waist and it forms a more flattering silhouette. Got a question about sex that you're too embarrassed to ask? In the online sex misinformation crisis, getting accurate and reliable answers about sex is more difficult than ever before. Mashable is here to answer all your burning sex questions — from the weird and wonderful, to the graphic and gory. Think of us as your sexy agony aunts. I became fascinated with the dichotomy between how breasts are presented for public consumption versus how we feel about them privately,” Laura told me. “I felt compelled to look past the cultural mirror which had so long encircled me. What do women think about growing up? What do women think about sex? How do women feel about motherhood? Breastfeeding? What is our experience of health, body image, ageing? It is clear to me that Bare Reality was a search to find out what it means to be a woman.Around half of the more than 20 videos BuzzFeed News initially found had been taken down within 48 hours, with many of the accounts behind them terminated. But more videos had popped up to replace them. A TikTok spokesperson told BuzzFeed News, “Nudity and sexually explicit content is not allowed on TikTok. We take appropriate action against any content of this nature, including banning violative hashtags and removing videos. We continue to invest at scale in our Trust and Safety operations.” Does he have a point? Why do we latch on to one asset and feel the need to draw everyone’s attention to it? It’s 2018 and the need to body shame women is, believe it or not, stronger than ever. What’s worse, is when women do this to each other. And that’s just the beginning of this sort of content on TikTok. Over the last week and a half, TikTok users have been bombarded with videos in which users expose their breasts using a variety of blink-and-you’ll-miss-it techniques that manage to get around the platform’s content moderation systems. It’s all part of a trend called the Foopah challenge, named after the now-suspended account that initiated the flashing videos.