The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

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the casual reader misunderstands deida and wrongly characterizes him as stereotyping genders. this is not at all what he is doing. listen deeper. he writes/teaches about masculine and feminine energy, which is present to varying degrees in all men and women. when he describes feminine energy, he is not describing women, and when he describes masculine energy, he is not describing men. this is an important distinction. as he says, even places have masculine and feminine energies, e.g., hawaii has predominantly feminine energy, while new york is very masculine. He says that your woman will test you to see if you found your WHY and if you are serious about it. She wants to know that you can stay the course and she doesn’t want to be your first priority in life. If you don’t have control over your ejaculation, then you cannot meet your woman’s needs. You must learn to convert the ejaculation “into non-ejaculatory whole body, brain, and heart orgasms.” Whatever that is. There is no way to avoid this. However, there is a way to not act upon it. And you shouldn’t—because it eventually ends up complicating your life much more than anything else.

If he spends more time in the mirror and his own radiance and life force makes him happier than his woman she will be upset (..) Both literally and metaphorically. A man must love his father, but he must never allow to live in his shadow. That’s why, in strictly Freudian manner, it is essential to kill your father.The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work and Sexual Desire – by David Deida

It is dark the masculine force; if you disown it, you are kinking its hose and. thus, you weaken your masculine capacity to face the unknown while still being able to love your woman. Some of these are The Enlightened Sex Manual, Blue Truth, Finding God Through Sex, and the autobiographical novel Wild Nights. What are you good at? Are you as good as you could be? Are you contributing as much as your skills allow you to? Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen 45 Breathe Down the Front 46 Ejaculate Up the Spine Part Eight: Men’s and Women’s Yoga of Intimacy Women test men to make sure they’re still as strong and grounded as they were at the beginning. Men pass these tests by not reacting to them and remaining grounded in themselves.Disconnected from your core, you feel weak. This empty feeling will undermine not only your “erection” in the world, but your erection with your woman, too.”