Though my own crotch has been filmed and photographed enough that I'm sure many of you have seen it by now, the book inspired me to add to the documentation. So in spirit of "I'll Show You Mine", here's mine! Human beings have a remarkable capacity for intellect. However, we are the total sums of our evolution. Our intellect has been created in an evolutionary blink of the eye compared to our sexuality. When we try to intellectualize our sexuality we run into some powerful forces. I think what Wolf was getting in this book was that we are still subject to the animal forces of our genes and we ignore them at our peril.

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Hymens vary greatly in shape and elasticity, and they can also change with age or during pregnancy. This book, and Wolf's approach to the vagina, is all about the experiences of heterosexual ciswomen. Mostly white women. Mostly women exactly like her. Despite giving lip service to ideas like 'every woman's sexual response is different,' she makes broad sweeping claims about the way in which the vagina interfaces with the brain and the way to optimize female experiences of sexuality and romantic/sexual relationships that completely ignore transwomen, lesbian or bisexual women, even unpartnered heterosexual women. If your theory falls apart when considered from any other lens, it's either nonsense or extremely limited in usefulness, and you should stop peddling it as transformative. A woman of her word, Naomi returned the favor, and published a book celebrating the very heterosexual vaginas of privileged women with way too much damn time on their hands. Perhaps no television show has done quite so much to put vaginas at the forefront of its agenda than Sex and the City. Running for six seasons from 1998 until 2004, the show unashamedly spoke about the vaginas and desires of its four stars, in particular Samantha Jones, the sexual savant who declared, “My vagina waits for no man.”

Other times she makes inarticulate statements that don't seem to relate to her topic, and somehow still gets things wrong, here's a fun example where I bet no one else will call her on:Naomi, you are not a control group, a single person can not be a control group, that's not what a control group is... Those "dakinis" you interviewed were not a control group, those were human beings you were interviewing. These are wonderful topics, I love where her heart is in wanting to write this book, a richer and deeper understanding of both the scientific and spiritual aspects of sexuality, so perhaps that's why I felt so disappointed reading this -- this disappointment climaxed during her visit to the sacred spot massage workshop, where she writes: