Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog.

This subversion of traditional gender norms can be appealing to women, too. Shira is a professional domme and a “keyholder,” meaning she keeps the keys of the chastity devices of a number of her male clients. She also enjoys the kink in her spare time with her partner. She appreciates that the kink challenges patriarchal ideas around sex—that it gives the control (literally and psychologically) to the woman. Eventually, they started discussing it more, and Tom even bought his wife a book on the subject. Now, Tom says exploring the kink has brought them closer together. “Our relationship is better and stronger than ever and I don’t think we’ve ever been happier or more in love with each other," he says. "Chastity has given me a greater appreciation for what women go through and deal with in a male dominated world.” So imagine a lonely little bearcub in some sketchy foreign zoo, pathetically squishing its hairless, malnourished flanks against the bars of a teeny-tiny cage.

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I would personally be opposed to trying to suppress nocturnal erections. It’s pretty well accepted by most experts that these are designed to keep penile tissues ‘nourished’ by periodically flooding them with blood, which is what happens during an errction. Without this, these tissues can start to degenerate over time, lose elasticity due to fibrosis & over time that could result in loss of erectile function - in other words, ED !! I’m pretty sure you don’t want that! Some women enjoy playing chastity games with their men, without his agreeing to give them the final say. This is fine for some, but not for a truly female led relationship. To experience the real benefits of chastity, he must agree to give you full control. If your man truly cares more for your happiness than his own, he should be glad for the opportunity to prove his devotion and love to you. You should probably consider taking a serious reappraisal of a man who would rather have selfish orgasms than put you first and become a better person under your leadership. If you want him to take pleasing you seriously, chastity release has to be entirely your decision. It might seem like a contradiction, but fans of male chastity explained how abstaining from sex, or taking their penis out of the equation, has made their sex lives better. That's because "sex" doesn’t just mean penis-in-vagina anymore; they’ve gotten creative and discovered new ways to experience pleasure. She was all in favour, by the way, and I suspect rather looked forward to a spell of peaceful weekend lie-ins. The erection is not completely suppressed and the swelling puts some pressure on my testicles (which appear by themselves grow bigger and more full during the night). Can there be other complications from this pressure?

Nothing that that was practical and unassociated to the traditional style of chastity, for those who just wanted something subtle and effective to help them with self-control. As a ‘late’ answer to Lincollon - you said Prostate Cancer is related to diet & consumption of dairy. That is not correct - much research has been done to try to understand what factors relate to increased risk of developing PCa. The only factor that comes up as a risk is family history - in my case, my paternal grandfather had it & my Uncle (Dad’s brother) also had it. So far, no dietary or other lifestyle factors have turned up, altho there’s some correlation between frequency of ejaculation with it - the more frequent, the lower the risk. One theory about why this is so is that fluids retained in the Prostate may become sort of ‘stale’ & that changes could lead to tissues becoming abnormal & eventually cancerous. So it’s thought that frequent ejaculation kind of clears the gland & keeps it functioning in a healthy manner. Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it. Choose from two sizes, both made with sleek and sturdy polycarbonate and completed with a neoprene finish. This cage is one of the most stylish we’ve ever seen. It’s even waterproof, and leaves space to pee.Eventually, you can put an end to his releases and orgasms entirely, and enjoy a long, happy, healthy, and extremely sexually active relationship. If his releases are important to your sexual life, and your desires, you may decide never to take the ultimate step in chastity control. More and more women, however, are choosing this bold step forward, due to the increasing variety and quality of modern stimulation devices for women, as well as the many ways an enthusiastic and focused man can provide gratification without using his penis. It is true that keeping the hope of orgasms around is a powerful motivating tool, so many who choose this strategy keep releases on an arbitrary basis officially, and simply phase his releases out naturally. If he is well trained enough, you shouldn't ever hear a complaint about it, since he should know that asking only pushes a release further away. As a result, you can choose perminant denial without having to inform him, reducing any possible drop in the quality of his service to you. Medically speaking, there is no reason why a man needs to ever have a release or orgasm to live a long and healthy life, so ultimately your preferences are the only thing that matters.

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