And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find out gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promote their content with likes and retweets and — of course — sending your favorite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare. These are just a few examples of the kind of financial domination expected from doms because subs get off being controlled, and money doesn’t always mean much to them but rather the feeling of being controlled by someone else. Is this even considered cheating because she doesn’t do anything sexual for him and he does not ask. Their conversations consider of her not even begging for money but basically demanding that he send her more money ASAP. There is no exchange between two identities that meet, and consequently sex is automatically excluded. Exchange is avoided and prevented by the distancing imposed by the network, which at the same time makes the practice of financial domination more immediate. Still, even though there are more straight FinDoms out there than gay ones, AJ’s bank account and spotlessly clean bathroom prove you don’t have to be a hot straight guy to be a successful FinDom. He’s always been very open about being gay, CASHFAG, and not only do gay male subs all over the world send him cash, but local gay male subs clean his apartment and run errands for him.

The exchange of material goods is thus sufficient to allow an erotic practice, in this sense perverted. This is also why it is possible to identify this state as a “money masochism”. The dominated one experiences pleasure in giving money and expensive gifts of all kinds to the dominatrix. But it doesn’t stop there. Financial domination or having a stranger manage her finances Why would a gay or bi male FinDom claim to be straight? Because, as AJ points out, it’s going to make him more appealing to a significant segment of the gay finsub community. “There are a lot of gay men who fetishize being bullied by straight men,” said AJ. “And a lot of gay subs enjoy the idea that they are tributing to someone who will never be attracted to them. Which I find kind of laughable because being gay doesn’t necessarily mean a guy has a chance with me.” Being a financial dominator may seem like the best job in the world because you make money off of other people, but there are still certain rules and regulations in place.

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Financial Domination is a form of BDSM because it involves a dominant who controls the subservient finances. Keep in mind that there are many various contracts available to you. You may create a contract around any shady issue you can think of. Many of them do not have a genuine desire to help! They are more interested in filling out a contract and scoffing at the prospect of being your slave. Still, even though there are more straight FinDoms out there than gay ones, AJ’s bank account and spotlessly clean bathroom proves you don’t have to be a hot straight guy to be a successful FinDom. He’s always been very open about being gay, CASHFAG, and not only do gay male subs all over the world send him cash, but local gay male subs clean his apartment and run errands for him. Moreover, on this side, needless to say that the Findom makes thousands, even millions dollars to the dominatrices per day or per month. Thus, financially, the control and management of other people’s money help dominatrices to be totally free from any need.

One of things I’ve been able to explore in the last year is FinDom. I really get off on sending money that we can spare to younger, hotter guys and being degraded for my pains. Thing is, almost all the guys doing FinDom are straight. It’s often a part of their persona they play up: they’re hot straight guys demanding cash tributes from “pathetic fags” that they would never touch in real life.

While none of the rules of financial dominance is written down anywhere, there are certain unspoken rules and ethical boundaries that doms are expected to follow. Most findoms never physically meet their submissive. The entire relationship only exists online. The reason for this is because it’s this surrendering of power that is arousing for the finsub, rather than physical touch. Also, many findoms are either in relationships or have other jobs, so they just like to carry out their role anonymously. This is also true for finsubs. It would be very awkward finding out that your boss or older neighbor gets off on spending money on a younger Findom. Findom is a form of financial domination where one person exerts control over another in exchange for money. In a financial domination relationship, we find a dominator who is the object of the dominated’s financial care. Financial domination, also known as findom, is a form of BDSM ( bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, masochism) activity in which the submissive gives gifts, money, and control of their finances to the financial dominant. It is a form of power exchange in which the financial dominant has control over the financial submissive’s resources and can make decisions about how they are used. Well... let’s just say that I found out he signed a debt contract with a FinDom for a very large amount of money. He would be sending her money as a “paypig” and she would thank him but no sexual favors whatsoever. He committed to paying her purely because of some sexual pleasure. It’s called FinDom apparently.

Just as straight gay-for-pay porn stars managed (and still manage) to get off doing gay porn, there are straight male FinDoms getting off on what they do. “I know I enjoy draining cash from men I find unattractive,” said AJ. “Being dominant turns me on even if I’m not into the person. So there could be straight male FinDoms out there who get some sort of sexual satisfaction from draining gay men but are still straight.” And it’s easy to see why a straight male FinDom who got a little turned on during an online draining session with a gay male sub might make a point of emphasizing his straightness—not just to rub his sub’s nose in it, CASHFAG, but to reassure himself. The findom should be honest and transparent about their intentions and expectations, as well as any rules or guidelines that they have in place. This can help the finsub to feel more comfortable and secure in the dynamic. The finsub should also be honest about their tastes, their requests, and their final situation and capabilities. This will prevent any awkward situation like the Dom making s financial request the sub is not capable of fulfilling. Provide support and guidance. I’ve been feeling better ever since hearing you about a week ago. Your Alien Implant file had an unexpected effect on me. I’ve been feeling less pain. I’ve sustained a lot of damage over the years and started developing arthritis in my 30’s had to have my hip replaced, wrists repaired etc. I didn’t realize how much it was hurting, until it started going away. That alone is a huge gift that you’ve given me.

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While the relationship sounds relatively tame, a lot goes into being a findomme. Subs are often referred to as “pay pigs” or “slaves” because that is their role in this relationship. I often feel my least anxious (and therefore best) while deep in trance with one of your recordings or videos. I’ve had erotic experiences that were incredible with some, but also I have just had moments of sheer joy or just being truly calm when I struggle with that regularly. I like giving up control. I’ve had a good experience with this,” said AJ. “It’s been both profitable and enjoyable, and I’ve made great connections with so many people, including other gay Doms. I’ve always really liked talking to other gay men—whether they are submissive and into FinDom, or just intrigued by my profile.” And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promote their content with likes and retweets, and—of course—send your favorite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare.

As much as I like having my wallet drained by a hot young straight guy calling me a fag, I would so much rather give my money to a hot and dominant young gay man. Why do so few gay young men get into this? Do young gay men realize how much money they’re leaving on the table? Could you please tell them? You can put yourself out there all you want, but it does not guarantee that you’ll get a finsub, unless you go looking for one. Sliding into inboxes may be a step too far, but you can share links to your content in finsub groups, and reply to their messages if you get any. Go fishing, and you’ll probably catch one. Once you do, remember your responsibilities as a findom. Despite what you say or do in the name of domination, remember that your finsub is a living, breathing person with just as much agency as you do. Treat Them That Way. Financial domination gives the dominant a sense of control. Being able to dictate the terms of the relationship provides power, and this can be rewarding for both parties. Have the terms uncut and cut fallen from the lexicon? Are men that unfamiliar with their own anatomy? Is it a generational or regional thing? What’s going on? Have the terms "uncut" and "cut" fallen from the lexicon? Are men that unfamiliar with their own anatomy? Is it a generational or regional thing? What's going on?There is a very excellent reason why you should not do this. Contracts essentially serve as a session for many of your followers. They even jerk off when it comes to filling them out and reading them. Financial submissives will likely to send gifts to the financial dominant. These gifts can range from small tokens of appreciation to more expensive items. Some possible gifts include jewelry, clothes, shoes, bags and even things like cars and houses. Money