Once someone has the mistaken idea that their fantasy is common, the can feel frustrated / rejected that their partner turns down this thing that "lots of people" are doing. Its an unreasonable response, but unfortunately it happens. Hogwash on homeschooling being the cause of her cheating. I homeschooled, with no help, for several years, and I didn't go out and F people at the gym. There are healthy ways to combat change and loneliness, and then there are unhealthy ways (your wife). That doesn't mean she's lost to you, though. Be firm with the moral boundaries, and definitely go 180 to shake here out of this fog. Get into counseling, and maybe there will need to be some changes in schooling or home life, but for now, she can't see the gigantic cliff looming up ahead, nor can she see the path of destruction she has left in her wake. Tonight's talk should be a simple one on your end. Your first question should be, "do you want to stay married and committed to me and only me, or do you want to Divorce?" You probably will get the "I'm confused, I don't know what I want" schpeal. Don't fall for it. Be firm and tell her, "I am not going to wait around forever while you find yourself, you need to make a commitment, me, or your other lifestyle". If you wish to give her time, there's nothing wrong with that. I am married to a preacher. I love him, but he’s hardly home. Preaching assignments here and there. The little time we get to be together too is always ruined by visitors and phone calls from Church members and their ’wahala’. Dave, I can’t even compete for his attention, let alone, time. That’s why I am having an affair with my Ex-boyfriend. At least, he sees me.” Tom and Cindy had come over to our house again for dinner and an evening in our hot tub. This time Tom and Cindy brought the dinner - a delicious carryout from our favorite Chinese restaurant. Me and my husband were in charge of the drinks, and we had plenty of strawberry daiquiries which we started serving early. It was about 5 or 6 weeks since Tom and Cindy had last come over and I accidentally and secretly gave Tom a foot job while we were all drunk and in the hot tub. I did not want that to happen again because I was happily married and not at all attracted to Tom.

Now I am sure he has been doing it for at least six months but the quilt has been over the bathroom door since last October. I can see when he is moving the quilt out of the way but never let on that I know he is watching me. I wanted to prove it to myself so badly I have placed the video camera under the blanket of my bedroom door aimed at the bathroom 10 times in the last few months. Every woman ought to get to understand a man by letting them speak – at length if necessary. And when it’s your time to show him what time it is, you’d do a better job than those who merely display ignorance (all in the name of ‘duty’, simply because you’re his wife). Dave, I’m far better positioned to sustain a long term journey with my customers in a session. I don’t have to be funny to stay relevant in my business, but it helps to be fun. I am the kind of woman who brightens up a man when I see one, as opposed to the women who brighten up a room when they leave it. You can’t see me and just watch me go; unless I don’t like you. Me, I’m a player. I know what’s up, and he married a bad girl. You can’t tame a bad girl with a wedding ring or pregnancy, and I know a part of him knows that too. I love the chase. I love the game. I love the sex. Variety is bae. Monogamy is nay! Hubby is a cool guy and all, but ‘cool’ ain’t shit. I’m a ‘HOT’ commodity, so I don’t limit myself to thinking only about my husband and kid. My customers also need my creativity to help solve their marital problems (I know you get the drift?). I think of every ‘call’ as a problem solving opportunity. I am selling more than just a body in a hot dress. I am selling ideas, perspectives, and insight into the mind of a man. I do the needs-based kind of sex: I determine my customer’s needs before I start to propose skills (solutions). I was dating Two (2) men when I found out that I was pregnant. I had to choose between the two guys, which amongst them fit into my idea of a ‘perfect’ father/husband. I chose my husband over the other. My husband is the ‘Good-Guy’ type, very homey, decent, responsible and committed. The other gentleman is more of the ‘Fun’ type, full of energy and jokes. I don’t want to lose any of them – because they both mean different things to me. So, yeah, I’m also cheating on my husband (in fact, did I even stop cheating on both men?) This life! So f**ked up!” The married women revealed their extra marital affairs to relationship expert, David Papa Bondze. The confessions have subsequently gone viral on social media.

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To make matters worse – for a couple of months now he is hardly home and stays out late every night due to work. We are hardly having any sex because he is mostly tired and not interested. Again, the way he is constantly protecting his phone, I’m beginning to think there’s more keeping him out and not only work. The thing is, I am not going to sit down and lose my sanity and peace of mind if I find out he is cheating again so I gave in to one of my numerous admirers. Yes, I love my husband, and I do not want to leave him, and I know he loves me too. In your case , as other posters have pointed out, you would be doing this to placate your wife........I think it would end up like pouring gasoline on a fire.. He grinned and said, "No hair on it." my wife just laughed and told him he wasn't supposed to be peeking.

I have been in a long term sexual affair with one man for over 15 years. I don’t love him, but I love the sex. He gives me the greatest sex that I can possibly imagine. I have been married for Six (6) years. And yes, I love my husband very much.” I want to confess about the second of the three times I did a "soft swing." I'll turn 54 in several days, and I am a happily married, prim and proper, mom of 4, but I can't get the memories of my 3 soft swings out of my mind these days. This happened about 20 years ago during the 10th year of my marriage. I'm also coming up on my 30th wedding anniversary this year. This is quite hard to explain and describe, but it is easier to spot it. Women always love to be found attractive. More so, they love to be a woman of a strong and a confident man. So in being a hotwife, women stand the pleasure of getting the share of both worlds. You find that your husband builds self-esteem because they find you attractive and obviously because they are strong and confident they will allow you go out and spread your wings, so to speak. Through these women becomes more aware of themselves, more sexually adventurous and starts to take pride in their appearance.I'm still very confused and I've still got a pulse in the high 90's and high blood pressure from this. Usually I have a low blood pressure and a pulse of 50. I know that I'm just not thinking straight right now. These men find infidelity exciting. They like the secrets. The sneaking around. The sin. They will find stories like this, stories of married women deciding to take a risk and cheat, incredibly sexy.

I am in my second marriage. And yes, I am cheating on my husband. I wasn’t always like this: I used to be faithful. I used to be content with only one man. I used to love and trust, from deep within. However, my first husband turned me into something I never knew I could be: A murderer! I killed him, Dave… I poisoned my first husband, and watched him die in our bedroom, painfully. I mixed a deadly, colorless, tasteless, odorless substance with my lotion, smeared it gently on my breast, rubbed it on my vagina, put some on my lips: I coated every part of my body I knew he enjoyed putting his mouth and tongue on, and watched him swallow every bit of his own saliva, mixed with the substance. The front doorbell rang and I could here him talking to somebody. I was in total panic mode totally exposed, NOPE! - this baby was a mini skirt - showing a lovely degree of her creamy thighs...sitting just below her little while bikini **....which were on view several times that day...especially when tending to our son in his stroller! She could squat by his stroller in a very lady-like manner, and keep her knees together - but that skirt was so high....if you were at the right angle - her ** was easy to see up there....and well, it was a lot of fun to watch her. The internet and porn has increased the visibility of a wide variety of fantasies. The great majority of people are not into hot-wives, but someone who is can find huge numbers of videos, and discussions on the topic and get the impression that its very common. (Its a classic internet "information bubble". I can’t stop thinking about my older cousin. I hope I see him at the family reunion. Every time we run into each other it’s like we were never apart even though we are both married with children. He always initiates and can’t keep his hands off me when we are alone. The last time we saw each other there were so many stollen moments. Starting out with him sitting between me and his wife Nicole at dinner.

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Learn all about hotwifing in this tell all ultimate guide. It is true to say that women tend to get raw deal when it comes to finding great information and secrets of being a hotwife. This is because the information available on internet is written by men to other men and the material that is written for women is all about what they get up to rather than how to make it work. In other words, it is also written primarily for men. This piece will narrow down at hotwifing basics as well as the pleasure that women get from it. Though it was just sex, it was good sex. I loved it. It was different, intense and wild. I guess I still remember it because – if I were to compare and contrast with that of my husband’s, I’d grade the guy 180/100. My husband is 65/100. I don’t intend telling my husband about that mistake. It’s going to be a secret I would have to die with. I am not ending friendship with that guy either. Nobody knows tomorrow, so I’m keeping him in an arm’s reach. Being a mother helped me make my family a priority, thus, my decision to want to do the right thing… so help me God!” She feels that for the past six+ months that she's been going through the motions and doesn't feel like she loves me the same. "We've lost that spark," she said. But it isn't just emotional, she wants more out of the physical side too. I had to stop her there, because SHE hasn't taken the time to talk to me about any of this. She never made an effort to communicate directly. At home I would be physical with hugs and tender kisses and seductive moves, but she hasn't been. I told her that she is the one who hasn't been trying hard enough. She hasn't been trying to make the relationship work either on an emotional level or physical one.