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Tell Me Again: A Memoir

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And thanks too for the lighthearted tone and the joyful watercolor-style illustrations. As for me, I'm still heaving a little and blowing my nose and wiping hot tears from my cheeks. Life is a series of systems, Lou. You can move and survive anywhere if you understand respect, relationship and reciprocity. Shows up once in The Chronicles of Amber, when Corwin is talking to somebody who's under the impression Corwin is somebody else disguised as Corwin - and that the disguise shows he still can't accept the subject matter of the conversation and so needs to hear it all yet again. (Ultimately it becomes unclear whether the person was really deluded or knew from the start he was talking to Corwin, so this may or may not be an in-universe trope.)

Presentations by Indigenous academics are often attended by almost entirely Indigenous audiences, and when the proceedings break for lunch we tend to find one another out on the grass somewhere, sitting in the shade, catching up on everyone’s business. Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born is a children's picture book written by Jamie Lee Curtis and illustrated by Laura Cornell is an adoption story, where a little girl asks her parents about the night she was born again. On top of all these motherly women have suffered -- and not ever offset by all that they gained after somehow becoming parents -- never had I thought about this before: Compare Shall I Repeat That?, which also serves as an inversion, but mostly exclusive to video games.A couple of years later I watch a movie on the violence of prison systems – I am too young for it but I had been left home alone and it was on the television. In my naivety, I still don’t realise that prison is where Dad was when we say he was at work, so I simply store away the information from that movie.

As soon as Dad is home, I begin to beg my parents for a little sister. I believe in my heart of hearts that if I can have a little sister, she will be my best friend. Within the year they conceive Taylah, who comes earthside on Dharug Country. Curtis' text is simplistic and extremely adorable. I like the fact that this is a story that was told so often that the child practically memorized the story. It’s like their child’s adoption isn't a big secret that should stay that way. Cornell's illustrations are beautiful, colorful, and reminiscent of watercolor paintings. It gives a rather wistful and lovely atmosphere of the story. I answer without thinking too much about it. I haven’t been here in 20 years but that name sounds about right. Yet with my answer, the energy of the small group shifts. I can tell in their faces and in my belly that I have erred, that I am erring, and I am not sure how.No one is friendly, and as eager as I am to see Dad, this place is a bit scary. We don’t get to take any possessions in with us and Mum has to hand over her bag before we can go in. When we finally get to be in the same room as Dad, I think he looks handsome in his all-green uniform. Everyone in that room, talking with their loved ones, is wearing prison greens. Green like my mum’s eyes. At the beginning of one of the missions in Desperados, Sanchez asks Kate to once again explain the plan to him. The game justifies this by portraying Sanchez as a bit dense, noting Kate's annoyance as she has apparently explained this plan to him several times already. At conferences you may sit across from someone who is later on your grant or hiring panel. Though there is, of course, no formal segregation anymore, exclusions and separations based on class, race, and privilege continue. Dad, I would say the difference is: this isn’t prison. No one’s trying to punish you. Go drink your coffee in the sun.”

Before we left, Mum had thrown some of our belongings into the car and announced that we were moving to be closer to Dad. Maybe because I am so young, three years old, maybe four, and maybe because I never know when or how to keep quiet, everyone around me refers to Dad as being “away for work”. How is drinking coffee in there any different to when the toilet is next to your bed in a cell?” he retorts, confident in his argument. I am suspicious and she can tell but I don’t want to do or say the wrong thing. Whenever families are spoken about at preschool, I make sure I mention Dad is at “work”. I like being at preschool. There is a small kitchen but it isn’t like the one at home where everything is too big and I have to do things alone. Here the benches are real low and there are grown-ups who help us learn to make and butter our own toast. It feels like a very empowering place to be. In the film version of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, Ron asks Hermione to explain again why they're making a potion in a girl's bathroom. This book is way cute! It’s different than I thought it would be-I was expecting it to be about how a baby was made pretty much and in some ways it was but in many ways it wasn’t. This is the book about an adoption—a girl who was adopted asks her mom to tell her about the night she was born, and it goes through the whole process. The adoptive parents got the phone call in the middle of the night, jumped on a plane, called their grandparents, and then explains that the adoptive mother couldn’t grow a baby in her tummy so another woman who was too young to take care of the girl was growing her and she would be the birth mother but not the adoptive mother. It shows them arriving at the hospital and seeing their baby for the first time, the baby (in actual size) for the first time and the first time that each held the baby and their first night with her. Towards the end the girl says “Tell me about our first night as a family.”But then, with a start I remembered how Jamie Lee Curtis wasn't able to have her own biological children. During the niceties of mingling and meeting I find myself standing within a gathering of mostly white academics and am asked: My dad is many things – a roofer, a labourer, a partner, a convicted bank robber – and to me he is a teacher and a translator in a world I sometimes struggle to understand. When we garden together he draws my attention to the flowers, and specifically the bees, instructing me to observe the way they hover over the blooms, collecting the pollen and going on to make honey.

On the days when Mum does wake up, I go to preschool. Always, before we get out of the car, Mum reminds me that we are in Adelaide because Dad is here for work. In The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, despite the player being ostensibly an outsider to the titular region, s/he can come off as clueless when asking certain questions about the current political climate that anyone would have been familiar with. For example, they don't know about the Thalmor, the Great War and the circumstances behind Ulfric Stormcloak's rebellion. When asking Ralof about the latter, he replies in disbelief that the player character doesn't know, who replies in turn that they "haven't been informed on current events". When we arrive at the new home, I can’t help but think it looks and smells funny. The carpets are all weird bright colours; my sister takes the room with the orange carpet, mine is purple. There are no curtains in the windows, and that first night, with the moonlight filtering through the branches of the old tree that scrapes against my window, I become convinced that if I move, something that is waiting will see me and gobble me up. I lay still in my new bed and by morning I have wet it, soaking through the sheets and my pyjamas. Mum is disappointed but not as much as I am disappointed in myself. I will be starting at a new preschool and I don’t want the other kids to think I am a baby – only babies wet their beds.Original Review: I think that this book is so cute and informative to children about the adoption process! It allows children to learn about adoption in a positive and fun way. The child genuinely is excited about hearing of how she was adopted, and I think that a lot of children who are adopted can read this book, and feel better about being adopted.

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