The Little Bit Naughty Book of Wild Sex Positions

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Joslyn Jane : 69ing. It can be really hot for a few minutes, but it’s not the easiest for many people to climax in. It's also difficult to concentrate on giving head when I am close to climaxing. And who knew hours of endless thrusting wasn’t that enjoyable? When I was younger - and I didn’t have the heart to tell them - this was most of my lovers’ go-to recipe when it came to sex and they’d often be stumped when it didn’t get results. Boys - a bit of thrusting is fine - but don’t expect fireworks with this form alone.

There are plenty of ways to embrace the power play here, so take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting (and don’t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if its your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!)You could surprise your partner with your favourite position from the list. Or perhaps you prefer to look through these positions with your partner, to warm up the atmosphere and raise the temperature?

Dante Colle: Sex is often advertised, or portrayed, as this thing that's all about power and ego, rather than about intimacy and adventure. [So people focus on seeming impressive.] Plus, until you get enough practice in, it’s important to wait on this one to avoid hurting your partner. Alison Rey : Even a girl with the most muscular quads and glutes is going to have a hard time sustaining that position for a long time. Very little kissing or touching can happen in it. It doesn’t even allow a woman on top to control the penetration much. Which is the point of being on top. Brenna Sparks : Doggy is actually one of my favorite positions. However, if the penis is long, then doggy style can actually be extremely painful for most people. There are two simple ways to update your sexual repertoire when things start to grow stale. The first is to incorporate sex toys into your sex life. The second is to try some crazy sex positions. This piece is going to focus on the latter. (But if you are interested in sprucing up your sex life with toys, head here to see our top sex toy recommendations for couples.)Bring your fantasy to life in this hotter-than-hot standing move. If the receiving partner is the one wearing the heels, they’ll be at the exact right height for deep penetration when they lean over a bed or table. Pro tip: “Differences of height with partners can be helped by placing one partner lying on a pillow on their side,” says certified sex therapist Marissa Nelson. “It will give the receiving partner an extra boost so the penetrating partner can enter at a better angle, making it more pleasurable for both.” Lindsey Leigh: If I put my leg up in this position, and a male partner plows into me and stimulates my clit, I squirt every time Why is it that we overhype some impractical positions while undervaluing great ones?

The Spread Eagle is an incredible positionfor anyone interested in dabbling with BDSM or just looking for some extra fun in bed. Yab-Yum With a Twist takes a traditional Tantric sex and makes it perfect for the front seat of the car. Instead of having the penetrating partner cross their legs, they’ll sit upright with the receiving partner on their lap. The special part of this position is how close you’ll feel to your partner. Sitting face-to-face and breathing each other’s breath promotes serious romance, no matter where you’re at.The Private Dancer is perfect for that ultra-sexy lap dance you’ve always wanted to give. The penetrating partner gets blindfolded for this one, putting the power all in the hands of the receiving partner they slide down onto their partner’s lap. From there, it’s all about grinding and leaning to find the ultimate sensation. You can have her legs spread around yours, or vice versa — do whatever feels most comfortable for you.

But as in sex we also like to keep things fresh, there are moments and situations where roles are reversed and the dominant becomes dominated and vice versa. This can happen during the same session: each partner experiences a new role and new exciting sensations. If you’re a fan of cowgirl and girl-on-top, this position will be a natural fit for you. “While it’s not the easiest of positions, it gives the partner on top ultimate control and deep penetration from a different angle,” says Nelson. “You should also self-stimulate the clitoris at the same time to have a possible blended orgasm.” Joshua Lewis : It's entirely impractical. It's hard to focus on getting your partner off when you're distracted by them going down on you. I’d rather give my full attention to my partner. Jenni Skyler, PhD, is resident sexologist for Adam and Eve and co-director of The Intimacy Institute.Lazy lovers, we see you and hear you. Particularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) can easily become a top-10 favorite sex position when the penetrating partner steps up into the big spoon role and enters the partner being penetrated from behind. Hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation and mouth remains free for kisses and dirty talk. How to do it : The receiver gets on all fours, then the giver kneels behind, with their upper body straight up or slightly draped over the other's body (ya know, like a humping dog). Plus, you’ll get to see exactly how she likes to be touched, too. And the view of her doing it isn’t bad. Go slowly at first to make sure the angle is good for both of you — you can also add or remove pillows from underneath her as needed.