Tantra sex, but make it last way longer. Whether that means you each have multiple orgasms or you practice edging and keep *almost* getting to climax doesn't matter, as long as you keep the sexy vibes going from dawn to dusk. 99. Tease your partner all day without having sex. You don't need to have a foot fetish to appreciate a woman's feet, and while normally the toes aren't thought of as a particularly erotic area, it's exactly this fact that makes them erotic. If, in the throes of passion, you're so overcome by your desire for her that you take a normally un-sexy part of her body and put it in your mouth, you're communicating your passion to her in an undeniable way. OK, so crying during sex—also called a crygasm—is actually super normal. Hopefully, you're crying because the sex is so good/you feel so connected/you're so happy. The mix of clitoral stimulation and oxytocin rush can result in tears that your partner will then oh-so-tenderly brush away. Awww! 102. Have breakup/goodbye sex. Some safe starting suggestions include putting a hand on your girlfriend's butt while out for a walk, to having her leave your apartment in a skirt sans panties or, if you're really feeling frisky, with a butt plug inserted.

Depriving any one of the sensations associated with sexual pleasure can sharpen the rest, so something as simple as switching off the lights can be remarkably erotic. ' Removing one sense can be a simple and safe way to begin with kinky sex,' says Sheppard. 'Try blindfolding your partner or using sound-muffling headphones.' 2. Bondage Ready to make a sex tape? Be sure to turn off your sharing, get enthusiastic consent from your partner (and decide what you'll do with the tape after), and start brainstorming names for your future reality show. 8. Film yourself masturbating.Public displays of affection range from hand-holding and innocent kissing to full-on make-out sessions to the flouting of public decency laws. For some couples, a kiss in public is cause for excitement, but others might want to get a little more adventurous. We're not going to condone any law-breaking or illegal public sexual behavior, but you can still work within the bounds of the law and have some fun.

The only safe and consensual way to try paraphilia is to (consensually!) add it to your dirty talk. But, maybe wait until you know someone and their preferences before whispering, "I want to cook and eat you alive, honey." 21. Quirofilia Start with a beginners' bondage kit if you want to experiment with restraint, but make sure you read the instructions to stay safe. "Being tied up can feel adventurous, and if added with a blindfold you can play with the senses of sight, hearing, taste, touch and imagination. The brain is the biggest sex organ," explains Lianne. We're not talking about the old cliché blow job tip of popping an ice cube in your mouth before going down on your partner. (Though if that does it for you, by all means go for it!) Ice cubes are the cheapest sex toy around, because it allows you to experiment with hot and cold sensations that can make for an exciting sensory session. Try trailing the ice cube over your partner's body when things get steamy for a chillingly good sensation. 4. Send a racy text. Lianne suggests starting with an easy role playing scenario, like pretending you don't know each other and chatting each other up in a bar. Combine pain and pleasureFor those concerned about burns, opt for a candle made for sex, such as JimmyJane's afterglow massage candles. These candles burn at a lower temperature, so you can enjoy the heat on your body without worrying about causing injury. 20. Vorarephilia Can you keep quiet while your partner gives you oral? Pro tip: It's helpful if you're on a call where "ahhhs" and "mmmms" can count as responses. 107. Have sex in your partner’s childhood home. If you don't have a penis, try donning a dildo or strap-on for a whole other type of play. Not only is wearing a harness hot but being on the giving side can actually be super erotic as well. 54. Have silent sex.

Learn how to play yourself like a damn fiddle. With a bit of practice and a lot of charge in your favorite vibration, you'll be having marathon masturbation sessions in no time. 93. Have sex standing up.Break out of the norm and get it on with someone new while still getting it on with your person. Role-play is a great way to do things differently, and you might be surprised how much of a difference a wig and accent can make. Sexy doctors on break, TV show characters, or attractive strangers—the options are kinda endless. Before jumping into butt play, easing into anal with a finger is an easy way to test the waters. It can be your fing or your partner’s, but gently insert it and give the anus a lil massage to see what all the fuss is about. 50. Try a toy up the butt. And if the idea of putting her toes in your mouth turns you off, hey, you can always start with one of her fingers and work your way up – the message is the same. Practise bondage safety: never leave a restrained person unattended, even for a moment. If the Dominant needs to leave the room for any reason whatsoever, always release the submissive to avoid catastrophe. Try to avoid uttering a noise from foreplay to finish. If you're having trouble, this is the perfect time to get a ball-gag involved (as long as everyone consents, ofc). Include a few silent sex toys to add another twist to the sexuation. 55. Have super loud, moan-heavy sex.