A: Studies generally point to negative outcomes associated with spanking, such as adverse effects on a child’s mental health. While there are no specific studies focusing solely on spanking at bedtime, the overall negative outlook on spanking is pertinent. So, for US…we’ve decided to not go forward with the maintenance spanking test. We’re going to keep on doing what we do. Eventually he’ll start slipping…In fact, as of this post, he’s already slipping from the last whuppin’, which I am downgrading to just “an attitude adjustment”. So I’ll be taking care of that very soon. And then after that, I’ll probably get the usual month to month and a half of good behavior until, he earns himself an attitude adjustment or another trip to the woodshed like this one. Spanking at bedtime can disturb this calm, making it difficult for your child to fall asleep or sleep through the night. This disrupts the aim of having them go to bed and sleep well. What are the Best Nighttime Routines for Toddlers? You know how I despise empty threats Thomas, so please make sure this turns out to be one that I never have to carry out. But, don't doubt that I will, if that's what it takes."

It's a rare sight, and of course it never lasts for long! The photo below focuses on the stingy aftermath of our short spanking movie, Plaid Miniskirt Spanking. knee. You mother suggested it might take a number of visits to my office before you learned to obey a Good afternoon Thomas. I might as well be perfectly blunt right from the start and tell you that this is going to be a most uncomfortable meeting for you. As a senior boy you are likely to find the situation embarrassing, it will not be pleasant, and in the immediate aftermath I very much doubt that you will thank me for it. But, I do promise you this: by hook or by crook I'm going to see to it that you put every possible effort into your studies, and so, right now, we will be seeing this matter through to its conclusion." I will be in extreme pain for a couple of days, and I have a good reminder of the marks he left on my bottom to steer clear of any disrespect or poor behavior. I'm sorry it had to come to this Thomas, but to your credit you took your discipline in good grace, and I suggest you return from the holidays with a much better focus, and a determination to excel yourself in the exams this summer."Mildred was walking by, the strains of the spanking symphony drifted through the window turning into a cocophony of sound, hard whups! and long, long howls of pain! She nodded satisfactorily. “Good old Mummy, keeping up the standards, that’ll teach her!” A: Spanking may produce immediate compliance due to fear, but it is generally not an effective long-term strategy for teaching a toddler to go to bed. The stress from the spanking could even make it more difficult for the child to fall asleep.

The first 10 strokes I would consider as landing hard and crisp, and they got my attention immediately. I just screamed out in pain. It is fierce, intense, and sharp, the burning sensation stays for a long time after, and it leaves deep red stripes across the whole bottom from side to side that are seriously welted. If he connects the next stroke to the previous stroke, the pain is doubled as it sets the first stroke off again pain-wise and burning severally again. It builds in its pain, burning, and intensity with each and every stroke. They may refuse to go to bed or get out of bed multiple times, sometimes to go potty, or simply because they want to avoid bedtime. It's going to be six for you Thomas, this time. Make no mistake, even for a senior, six strokes of the cane will be a very salutary lesson and, you can take it from me, it's going to be a lesson that you will not forget in a hurry."

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The main reason is that Stef’s whole behavior tends to get sluggish when his last correction was administered too long ago. The frustrating thing is that in such times I mostly cannot pinpoint exactly an infraction that would earn him a good slippering or caning. That’s the time where I wished to just fetch the cane to remind him that it is just a grasp away and waiting for him. Maintenance spankings were an option here. I am a successful business man and alpha out there in the real world (more independent than bossy). So coming home to my strict Goddess is extremely satisfying. We have become closer over the last few months as she has grown into her role. After he calmed me down, he dropped his pants and said get on your knees now; it is my turn now to be properly thanked for having to take you to task for your poor behavior.

The atmosphere during the drive home was unpleasant, and though we did not speak at all, There was no doubt that my husband was displeased with me and intended to teach me a lesson I would not soon forget. I wanted to jump up and run so badly but knew there was no way out, and I had to accept what was coming my way; it was well deserved. At thirty-five years of age she could still clearly remember the corridors of Saint Frances and the dark wood paneling outside the headmistress's study. It stretched from the dull parquet floor to around shoulder height, whereupon it gave way to insipid magnolia paint and windows that were set high in the walls, requiring the use of a hooked wooden pole to open and close their spring loaded catches.For Toddlers: Reassure them that you’re nearby and everything is okay. You may want to sit outside their room for a few minutes. It seems unfair because I fully understand and accept that I need to have rules and boundaries and to have to comply with my husband’s expectations. It is only right and natural and I really want to be good and a both beneficial and enjoyable wife so why is it also natural and unavoidable that I at times simply cannot resist a tempting opportunity to misbehave? Oh shit! Why today, why does she need a hug? Today of all days when I have let her down.” Thought Karen. He has the strength both physically and mentally, to do what is needed to make our marriage work and stay strong.

Of course," she had continued contemplatively, "I won't deny it's rare that a boy in his final year would find himself subject to the threat of corporal punishment, but I assure you there's nothing in the rulebook that says I cannot discipline a member of my tutor group in whatever manner I deem to be the most appropriate." These include positive reinforcement, setting clear boundaries, and using timeouts rather than spanking, yelling or hittingloudly along with my cries, as I had long forgotten the secretaries across the hall and in the other nearby