Spanking bench: Anything can be a spanking bench if you’re creative enough, but if you haven’t bought or made one, you’ll usually find these in a BDSM dungeon. Typically the partner being spanked will be bent over or on all fours. He directs me to crawl across his lap on the couch to assume the over-the-lap position that he explains is most common, since it allows for optimal control and connection to the spankee. (Other positions include: lying prone, bent over; under the spanker’s arm; through the legs of the spanker; and over the spanker’s shoulder, which Dr. Don explains represents that the spankee is his property.) The fluid Tara discovered on her thighs should be expected. As he bounces about over a Superior's lap, there is inevitable friction. Friction on a penis is pleasurable, hence the pre-cum. And let's not forget that being over a woman's lap is probably as physically close as the sex obsessed teen boy's penis has ever gotten to its goal. Until too late Jordan had not noticed how large and muscular Bruno was, otherwise he might have been more cautious, but before he could react Dewey’s big brother had grabbed him and thrown him over his shoulder. “We are going to have some fun with you!” he growled

Once it hits, however, the strapper lands with a delightful sting that causes my eyes to well up. By the third blow, tears are streaming down my face. Without missing a beat, Dr. Don spreads my butt cheeks and begins rapidly slapping my asshole with a small plastic kitchen spoon which, as promised, sends a euphoric pulse of energy up through my balls. All at once I realize how one might become addicted to spank therapy. My young and beautiful wife and I practice spanking as foreplay at bedtime every night and are both well into it. They might feel like they have no say over their job or with their friends, but during kinky stuff like spanking he can feel totally empowered.

The fire ants certainly lived up to their name, and within seconds, Jordan felt as if his entire bottom was literally on fire. Warm up before you go in hard with your paddling. Start with a hand spanking or use your paddle with light taps. This helps prep the mind and the bottom. It allows your partner to be eased into the moment. They can relax into the sensations instead of tensing in anticipation. RELATED: 10 Erotic Spanking Stories That Every Naughty Girl Will Love Here are 6 reasons why men like to spank women: 1. They get to touch a butt when they're giving a good spanking.

Drawing from more than 30 years of administering spank therapy and pointing to a 2005 Russian study from the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine on corporal punishment, Dr. Don says spanking’s therapeutic benefits include…For a short while he was free of the sense of dread of what might befall him next, which hay have been a kindness, given what was in store for him. Spanking someone does elevate your heart rate, which gets your blood flowing, which makes it easier to get an erection. 4. They know how much their woman likes being spanked. I am always the top and we both enjoy it that way. In doing so I use some of the suggestions given above. I start with massaging her bottom first over panties then gently slide them down abd massage for a few more minutes before beginning with “love taps” with my hand and increase intensity only enough to create a pleasurable sting which she fully enjoys. Before you buy a new paddle and start swinging, make sure you understand the basics. Choose Your Sensation: Sting or Thud