Even if emotional pain can sometimes be more intense than physical pain, I think you can handle whatever comes up with your uncle either by yourself or via the help of someone (we volunteer!!) I usually let the naughty girl poop the first enema right into the toilet without waiting - if you put too much soap in the water, there won't be much choice anyway. If you use clear water for the second enema, she should be able to hold it just as long as a regular health enema - five or ten minutes, whatever is normal for her. Valerie then cleaned up, and we exchanges pleasantries. We talked about where she had lived, and I found out she had some friends not far from me on the East Coast. I told her I would pay her plane fare if she wanted to come East and visit her fiends, and me! I gave her a business card, but never thought she would call. Together, they have written two books: Love Triangles: Understanding the Macho-Mistress Mentality and Imported Love: Filipino-Foreign Liaisons. If it would really and truly kill you if your doc figured it out, FLEET, how about a face-and-rump-saving white lie? Mention the fact that you’re administering enemas to yourself, leaving the masturbate-as-you-expel bit out, and ask your doc if that’s a problem. “She can ask her doctor an ‘innocent’ question such as ‘When I feel constipated, I give myself an enema. Is that dangerous?’” says Dr. Torres. “No need to mention masturbation, and the doctor’s answer may allay her other concerns.” —Dan

We may not always agree, but please keep discussions and debates civil. Any comments that are insulting, unnecessarily rude or target other users in a negative way will be removed. Excessive and aggressive behaviour will result in a ban. When I got to the room I was pleasantly surprised to find an assortment of bags, including large volume Sherema bags, the traditional fountain and combination syringes, and even an old enamel enema can. I undressed and Valerie returned to discuss the services I would like. I told her I would like an enema with a colon tube, and that I would like to give her an enema. She told me that she did take enemas, and that she did have colon tubes, and what the fee and tip would be. When the door opened, I started down the hall. I saw her step out of the door at the far end. I didn’t know her name yet, but I could see she was wearing a nurses uniform, and that she had long brown hair, and was of medium height. As I got close I could see that she was a pretty woman, and that the top of the uniform revealed a little more cleavage than you would see in any hospital. I immediately found her attractive, and as I introduced myself she lead me inside. She told me her name was Valerie. However, you have decided – as is your right since this is supposed to be a consensual relationship – that the dubious charms of regular enemas outweigh the joys of sex with Ana and are prepared to break off the relationship. So far, so good. Re: Punishment enemas don't have to hurt to be good punishments -- Sue (UK), 01:19:13 01/17/23 Tue [1]Society makes talking about sex taboo, and that taboo can invade the clinic room and adversely affect the doctor-patient relationship,” says Dr. Torres. I was very ready for the enema, and I realized Valerie know what she was doing, and that this was probably going to be very good. I still didn’t expect her to get the entire tube inside me, and I knew I couldn’t take the full contents of the bag. We don’t mention them because people usually make fun of them. The reason is a whole topic in itself. I use an old douche bulb that holds eight ounces. If you give the girl a bulb full and then remove it and squeeze the remainder into a measuring cup, you can figure out how much of an enema the girl is getting with a typical squeeze. I typically find two ounces in the measuring cup, so it's six ounces per bulb full. Figure six bulb fulls for a one quart enema and a dozen bulb fulls for two quarts.

As for your fear of being discovered, FLEET, Dr. Torres says you should be able to rely on your doc’s professionalism. “I have not seen many colonoscopies, so I would not know a physician’s ability to determine a person’s level of enema activity,” says Dr. Torres. “But as a physician who prides herself in building trust with patients, I would never disclose my knowledge of sexual activities that may make my patient uncomfortable or embarrassed unless there is a concern for her health or it directly affects her care.” Lastly, you don’t need to tell your gyno about your butt-pirating, unless a medical issue arises and you suspect butt play may have been at play. Otherwise, have fun with your cans, CAN! Rappler’s Life and Style section runs an advice column by couple Jeremy Baer and clinical psychologist Dr Margarita Holmes.our first bag enemas -- joanne & sandra (cousins) (our enema bag introduction), 04:53:13 06/26/13 Wed [2] Jeremy has a master’s degree in law from Oxford University. A banker of 37 years who worked in 3 continents, he has been training with Dr Holmes for the last 10 years as co-lecturer and, occasionally, as co-therapist, especially with clients whose financial concerns intrude into their daily lives Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your

Valerie then left me to finish, while she took the Sherema bag from the room, and prepared the enema I was going to give to her. Once I had finished and cleaned up I returned to the “enema room” to find Valerie’s bag full and hanging from the hook mine had hung from earlier. To my pleasant surprise I found that instead of the usual small enema nozzle, Valerie had attached a colon tube to the end of the hose for her enema. When I asked about this, she told he she liked deeply inserted colon tubes, as well, and thought I might be able to work the tube deeply into her. I knew then Valerie was a true anal erotic. So your mom isn’t clitless, HMMFHC. Her clit is down there somewhere. It’s just smaller and grayer than it used to be—just like your mom. —Dan I could feel that I had been a success, as I could feel the tube running straight up, high into her colon. Then I slowly removed the tube, which Valerie seemed to enjoy as well. Women do not ‘lose’ their clitorises,” says Dr. Torres. “The majority of the clitoris is located inside the body, but women recognize the ‘clitoral glans’ as the clitoris. This may become smaller with age, making it seem as though the clitoris has disappeared. But let me be clear: The clitoris never goes away.”

You may be a newly minted adult at 18, but you do not consent to what is happening. In addition, enemas can be harmful. You don’t need to douche (and please do not put hand sanitizer in your ass!) or give yourself an enema before having anal sex. All you have to do is take a shower beforehand. Use a mild soap and rinse. That’s it. And even showering is a courtesy. I’ve given and received plenty of anal fun-times while not, shall we say, shower fresh, and no one died. (Except that we died and went to heaven.) In general, the more recently you’ve had a solid bowel movement, the cleaner your rectal cavity will be. (This is yet another benefit of eating lots of fibrous vegetables!) If there are foods that you know give you gas, avoid them before doing the deed. Obviously some people are more squeamish about butt stuff than others and you should be sensitive to that — but don’t get so caught up in cleanliness that you forget sex is generally messy and bodies are both a miracle and, at times, kind of gross. Re: Punishment enemas don't have to hurt to be good punishments -- Sue (UK), 04:53:28 09/15/22 Thu [1] Valerie stood up, and then turned so I could see the distention of her belly. She said she liked to hold it for a few minutes, and walk around a bit, which she did before going to the toilet. I asked if I could stay with her while she expelled. She said she was a little uncomfortable with it, and might ask me to leave the room. She let me stay with her for the entire expulsion. I didn’t actually get to watch it come out, but I did talk with her for the entire time, and got a look at the contents of the toilet before she flushed. While she wasn’t as full as I had been, the enema had been a great success. How much to give depends on the girl, her age and other factors, but if you don't put too much Ivory in the water, she should be able to take as much as she can take from a regular for-health-only bag enema. My 14 year old is kind of small and can only take a little over a quart and a half comfortably, but her 16 year old sister can easily empty the two quart bag.

Thank you very much for your letter. It seems there are two people you are most worried about when it comes to your relationship with Ana: your uncle and Ana. Quite what your uncle’s role is in your life is unclear. Maybe your parents are abroad, or he is the rich member of the family – we don’t know since you haven’t told us. However, he does seem a Svengali-like influence on you, if not only did he arrange for you to meet Ana in the first instance but you think you require his approval to end matters with her. Once on the toilet Valerie provided me some old Sherema magazines to read, and to my surprised stayed and talked to me while I expelled most of the enema. I liked that, and found it made the experience even more erotic. As full of feces and water as I was it made expelling feel even better than usual.

All this was new to me. I was very excited and ejaculated before we even had sex. She said this was unclean and to make sure I was clean, she would give me an enema. It was ok the first time, but now she does it every time we meet.