I have told a few good friends about the arrangement and so far, no one has really fully understood. In fact, the first person I told – my best friend – he looked at me almost as if he was disgusted. He asked whether I thought it crossed the line but as I said to him if they had sex yeah, of course, it would but they are each other chaperones and that is all it is. Rather than trying to argue with your wife about whether what you did was right or wrong, agree with her that it is something you will avoid in future and, if it has distressed her, that in itself means it was a bad idea. Get Relate’s help to work through all the feelings that have been stirred up. (see relate.org.uk, 0300 100 1234). So I listened to all your advice and finally settled on trying to get him on board and enjoy my fantasy so much that it becomes his fantasy too. I came up with an idea on how to start it off and I went through with it on Saturday night. His generation were brought up to believe personal issues were best kept private and it was probably tied up with painful memories for him. You were part of his fresh, happier, start in life.

Rachel and I have always had a very strong intimate and physical connection. Despite this, her sex drive and her desires are stronger and more adventurous than mine. For years we were quite happy to fulfill these between the two of us, but about a year ago Rachel shared with me her wish to attend a swingers party. My e-leaflets Thrilling A Woman In Bed and Looking After Your Relationship should help. Give it a while, then tell her she cannot continue having two men in her life, that you want her with you 100 per cent. Whenever Lauren is introduced to something new, it changes her entire perspective on life. Until the following day when she forgets about it. I excuse myself to go upstairs. I am not as organized as Lauren and don’t plan weekends away. But I will now pretend to use the bathroom for the next thirty minutes.I did a bit of research and discovered that the person sending the messages was a male colleague of hers. I had been trying to persuade my wife to try “hotwifing” for a long time and was thrilled when she agreed.

Your boyfriend is feeling overwhelmed but ignoring the problem just adds to the stress he’s under. That in turn makes his erection problems worse. Tiffany loves college cheerleading, but when her squad loses 10 girls due to budget cuts, Tiff's future is on the line. It's up to the football players to decide who stays, and they are only looking for girls who put out.My wife couldn’t remember much the next day. She is embarrassed and ashamed but doesn’t want to go to the police. DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let her comments about his physique get you down. Good sex isn’t just about inches. Keep telling your wife you love her and want to have a wonderful sex life with her. Work at that and your relationship generally.

Stop arguing with her and work on having good family times together and I think her talk of you not having a future will die away. Obviously it’s best for your little boy to have two loving parents in a stable home. DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife and I have been having a great time over the past year or so, as I’ve watched her having sex with other men. This left me alone with the children from Friday evening through Sunday. Expectations were low as I am a sometimes-depressed/always-lazy parent who preaches discipline, which in reality translates to impatience, yelling, and finally caving to all their desires.DEIDRE SAYS: Assuming the participants were of age and the material is legal, then it’s none of your business.

I play in the poker tournament. In a past life, I played a lot of poker and it’s one of the two activities (along with eating peanut butter straight from the spoon without choking) that I’m good at. So IActually, I have had many people react quite intensely when they hear this, mostly I think because they just don’t understand, and because of society really molding them into believing there is really only one ‘right’ way of doing things. ‘I didn’t have an issue with Rachel taking part’ This collection is for adults only, containing rough sex, interracial, gangbangs, double penetration, double anal, and creampie. My wife *Rachel and I have an incredibly strong, committed relationship. We are open with each other, communicate effectively and are completely transparent with what we do and what we want. Mum said they were too old for her to do anything and she wasn’t going to leave him – they’re both 64.