The Wife Led Marriage: A Husband's Guide To Creating A FLR

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Some people may think that flr lifestyle is a form of feminism, and while it does put the woman in a position of power, it is not necessarily a feminist relationship. A feminist relationship would be one where the woman has complete control over every aspect of the relationship, and the man is completely submissive to her. An FLR can be either a feminist or non-feminist relationship, depending on how it is set up.

Meanwhile, the woman goes to work. Her job is the most important. She has financial control. She determines the financial priorities for the household and makes sure the bills are paid. After I’ve cleaned up I go downstairs to prepare our breakfast. I put on a bra and my casual red cotton dress. I don’t bother with a wig or breast inserts as we’re going out later so it’s not worth the trouble. (This is Mistress’s instruction since she doesn’t want me taking too long getting ready, or faffing about as she calls it.) I took the IDR labs gender test and it actually said I was undifferentiated/androgynous (31% masculine, 25% feminine). So if my future wife was willing to respect that aspect of me while agreeing to take the lead, I think I’d be happy. So we spend most of the night with me serving as her footrest and after a long foot massage she goes to bed and leaves me to my duties. The hardest conundrum is that which you face where you know your queen expects some level of manliness and abhors nonconventional males and so you are what she thinks she needs instead of what she really needs.

The important thing to remember is that there is no right or wrong way to have wife led marriage. What works for one couple may not work for another couple. It is important to communicate with your partner about what you both want and need from the relationship. only then can you create a successful flr relationship that works for both of you. What is FLR Dating? I’m still uncomfortable but I know she’s being caring and kind in allowing the smaller curtsey. She wants the full curtsey but accepts this just for me. She’s less bothered about this than the fact I am not in a skirt. This is always met with a thunderous face and folded arms and I’ll be told to change into a skirt or dress in no uncertain terms. Today I remember. I have tried to prevaricate and still do but no matter what needs doing, putting on a skirt or dress is the first thing I must do as soon as I enter the house.

From my experience leading a successful female led relationship, there are significant benefits to be had for both the woman and the man. However, there are certain steps everyone should take to ensure that the benefits of this type of relationship work for both parties. Encouraged feminisation softens the male and changes his character. It removes all the nasty effects of masculinity and replaces it with a gentle feminine character.As soon as she says that, I understand that I need to start focusing more on her calluses, so I move my tongue over to her callused heel but it does not do much. Mistress usually watches the TV news on Saturday mornings and we eat breakfast on the sofa. We only have something light such as toast and coffee. I bring it to her, not forgetting to curtsey and I’m allowed to sit in the sofa with her. I was heartbroken, but I was too weak to resist. I couldn’t divorce her because I would be left with nothing, and besides I loved her too much to never be allowed to see her again, something that Linda knew all too well. So, I moved in with Linda and basically became her full time servant. This was a very special view from the perspective of your feminized husband Alice into what it is like to be living in a very special form of female led marriage. It was very interesting to learn what the reaction by Alice to some of Mistress A’s requirements including is, including not quite understanding why, but following anyway.