Sometimes, no matter how slow and careful someone is, or how much you train for anal, issues and limitations can arise at any point. If they do, it’s important to know that you are not alone and it’s time to see a specialist. With these anal training sets, the most important thing is safety. The premise of safety is to take your time. If you’re in a hurry, it can hurt you or your partner’s anus. Before starting, it is important to clean the anus. If you didn’t buy an anal wash, head over to the anal wash category to buy it.

You’ll want to repeat all these steps 12–15 times per set and perform two sets in each session. If at any point your hole has had enough, don’t worry — stop and try again another day. And if you want to get off while doing your anal training, go for it! Anal Enema— No anal training kit would be complete without an enema. We consider it as the perfect go-to for a 'deep' clean before anal play. Performance: The star of the show with this anal training kit is the bullet that you can use with three of the four anal toys. You can cycle through a variety of vibration speeds and patterns until you find a setting that sets you over the edge. The anal douche that comes with this kit is sleek, compact, and easy to use – thanks to the squeezable bulb. In terms of perfomance, this is the best anal training kit in my collection – no doubt about it. Performance: When you’re starting out with this kit, you’ll want to use the smooth, 4-inch plug. When you’re ready, you can progress to the textured middle plug and then finish with the large bulbous plug. Since the plugs are made from rubber, they can be submerged in water. Unfortunately, this also means that the rubber material is a little flexible, therefore making penetration somewhat challenging. With some lube, though, it’s usually not a problem – once you get the hang of it. If you find that you aren’t making any progress, a complete examination--internal and external--is warranted, making sure there are no predisposed ailments limiting your anal dilation. Sometimes, the muscle is the only limiting factor and, thankfully, there is a test out there called an anal manometry that can evaluate the muscle. There are times when skin and muscle limitations can only be fixed with professional intervention, either by an anal surgeon or a pelvic floor therapist. These solutions can include anal Botox or surgery.While training on your own is preferred, anal training with your partner can be a hot and educational activity that cannot only help build trust and bring you and your partner closer, but also allow you both to get better acquainted with each other’s body. Before going any deeper, just one important tip: if you’re both anal training, make sure not to share toys. You can either use a new condom when switching toys or thoroughly wash them with warm water and soap. If you discover a defect and notify us via [email protected], b-Vibe will, at its own discretion, replace the product free of charge. Breathing during anal training and bottoming is as essential as it is during yoga. It helps calm the mind and body, allowing the muscles in your butt to relax and make insertion easier and more comfortable. Take a couple deep breaths each time you insert a dilator. Trust me -- it really works. Next, you need to choose the smallest size. Whenever possible, remember to start small. Then slowly slide into the anus. Don’t be in a hurry at first. Find the best rhythm. Let your body relax. Performance: There’s nothing that can quite compare to the feel of a glass sex toy inside of you, be it vaginally or anally. These toys can help you train your anal muscles for strength, endurance, and even control. When you apply ample lubrication, the rigid glass plugs will slide in with minimal effort. For a unique feel, you can change the temperature of the plugs by soaking them in warm or cool water for a few minutes prior to insertion.

By the way, before you start, remember the foreplay. Whether it’s oral sex or watching porn, peripheral nerves are stimulated. thereby relaxing the sphincter. Pro tip: Plugs are a great toy for public play, which has the added bonus of feeling forbidden or secretive. A complete anal training kit usually has two or more sizes of anal sex toys. Sizes are sorted from smallest to largest. Choosing a size is not difficult. If you are a beginner, choosing the smallest size is undoubtedly the best. For advanced players, though, the large size is definitely the best. ShapeMedium Vibrating Butt Plug— Once you start feeling comfortable with how the small butt plug feels, you might want to add another sensation to the mix: vibration.