His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

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Ocr_converted abbyy-to-hocr 1.1.20 Ocr_module_version 0.0.17 Openlibrary OL1184876M Openlibrary_editionI think my wife was most offended by the section where Harley tells women readers to do their hair nicely, consume fewer calories, exercise more, and consult magazine articles for tips on beauty, or else their husband will cheat on them. Most books on marriage deal with the importance of the man fulfilling his wife's needs during daylight hours ("women are ovens, men are microwaves") by being a supportive husband, this did not put as much impetus on the man. It's up to the woman to respond to her husband's wants, no matter what. Equality: Both partners should have an equal say in everything that happens in the relationship, regardless of whether or not they contribute equally to the overall workload. If one person feels like they’re always carrying the burden, it will eventually wear them down emotionally and physically.

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Admiration. She understands and appreciates him more than anyone else. She reminds him of his value and achievements and helps him maintain self-confidence. She avoids criticizing him. She is proud of him, not out of duty, but from a profound respect for the man she has come to know better than anyone else.problems without much difficulty. In chapter 3, I was fairly hard on the men, because I believe wholeheartedly that their inability to show affection is such a crucial problem. Remember, affection is the environment of the marriage; sex is the special event. At the same time, a wife must grasp just how special a man finds sex. He isn’t “pawing and grabbing” at her because he has turned into a lusting monster. He is pawing and grabbing because he needs something—very badly. Many men tell me they wish their sex drive wasn’t so strong. As one thirty-two-year-old executive put it, “I feel like a fool begging her all the time but I can’t help it. I need sex.” Why Men Feel Cheated When a man chooses a wife, he promises to remain faithful to her for life. This means that he believes his wife will be his only sexual partner “until death do us part.” He makes this commitment because he trusts her to be as sexually interested in him as he is in her. He trusts her to be available to him whenever he has a need for sex, just as she trusts him to meet her emotional needs. Unfortunately, in many marriages, the man finds that putting his trust in this woman has turned into one of the biggest mistakes of his life. He has agreed to limit his sexual experience to a wife who is unwilling to meet that vital need. He finds himself up the proverbial creek without a paddle. If his religious or moral convictions are strong, he may try to make the best of it. Some husbands tough it out, but many cannot. They find sex elsewhere. The unfaithful man justifies his behavior in terms of his wife’s failure to keep her sexual commitment to him. When she discovers his unfaithfulness, she may try to “correct her error” and improve their sexual relationship, but by then it may be too late. She feels hurt and resentful, and he has become deeply involved in an affair. One of the strangest studies in human behavior is the married man who is sexually attracted to another woman. He seems possessed. I have known bank presidents, successful politicians, pastors of flourishing churches, leaders in every walk of life who have thrown away careers and let their life achievements go down the drain for a special sexual relationship. They explain to me in no uncertain terms that without this relationship everything else in life seems meaningless to them.