The more you focus on all the good things that are happening in your life, the more of it you’re going to get. In this practical and straightforward guide, you will learn specific principles that will help you to build more effective relationships and stronger connections and leave a positive, lasting impression on everyone you get in touch with.

pillaged. You will no longer be accused of dictatorial tactics. And the office battle of the sexes may soon take its place in ancient history along side of the Battle of Hastings or the Seven Years War. Or would you just like to improve your people skills and your ability to create powerfully, lasting impressions on everyone you get in touch with from this day on? Make this a habit. It will also do wonders for your mood as well. You’ll be surprised just how better you can make your life become just by being kind to others. Besides, if your mood is up, the way you treat other people is better. This will consequently help your goal to become a people magnet individual. Be more confident To be a people magnet, you’ll need to tweak a couple of habits and personality aspects. This is so you can be more appealing and attractive to others that they’ll want to be near you or be comfortable being around you.

How to Become a People Magnet

Listen to the Testimonials The third reason that How to Be a People Magnet is guaranteed to work is: it contains confidential testimony from thousands of individuals in my relationships seminars. For eight years, I have been conducting communicationsskills and relationship seminars all over the English-speaking world, and I have perhaps learned as much from my students as they have from me—especially when it comes to the confusion men and women have about each other. The two sexes continue to baffle each other in the boardroom, the bedroom, and beyond. Yet they are hesitant to ask, “Why do you . . . ?” and “How do you really feel about . . . ?” In both my corporate and public seminars, they can ask questions anonymously and without embarrassment by writing them on a card signing only “M” for male or “F” for female. I then put the questions to the group, and the women answer the men’s ques- Improve your people skills with these simple habits.Do you feel awkward when you are around people?You don’t really know what to say or how to start a conversation on a Networking event?Having problems with your boss or employees and don’t know how to convince them to follow your lead?Do you want to improve your relationships with your spouse, confidants, or friends?In his book How to Become a People Magnet international bestselling author Marc Reklau reveals the secrets and psychology behind successful relationships with other people. Your success and happiness in life – at home and in business -, to a great extent, depend on how you get along with other people. Are you able to influence and persuade them? Although success can mean something different for each person, there is one common denominator other people.The most successful people, quite often, aren’t the ones with superior intelligence or the best skills, and the happiest people most times aren’t smarter than we are, yet they are the ones who have the greatest people skills.In this practical and straightforward guide, you will learn specific principles that will help you to build more powerful relationships, stronger connections, and leave a positive, lasting impression on everyone you get in touch with. Most of them are common sense, but it’s always good to have a reminder, because as they say, and “Common sense is the least common of all senses. and “You will learn: What the most important subject of any conversation isHow to make a great first impression and achieve that people like you immediatelyHow to really connect with people on a deeper levelHow to convince people and get them to say yes to youHow to communicate effectivelyHow to avoid committing the deadly sin in human relationsHow to make the human ego the ally in any of your endeavorsHow to handle complaints and critics smoothlyHow to listen effectively and be the most intelligent person in the roomHow to use body language to build immediate trust and make stronger connections…and much more…Good skills with people many times make the difference between losing your job or getting a promotion; between making the sale or losing it; between excellent customer service and being expandable as a supplier; between being THE ONE or just a friend; between a smile and an angry look.Once again, it’s small changes that will cause big results. Becoming a people magnet is easier than you thought. Apply the advice of this book, and your life will never be the same. The benefits are countless, and the results will show anywhere people are involved. How to Become a People Magnet by Marc Reklau – eBook Details

Fragging the Fatal FUD Factor But What About Me? I’m No Olympic Athlete How You Can Go for the Gold Clause #11: Ditch the Bitchers, Talk to the Trashers The most successful people, quite often, aren’t the ones with superior intelligence or the best skills, and the happiest people most times aren’t smarter than we are, yet they are the ones who have the greatest people skills. How We’re Going to Find the Answer From the time we are little tykes rattling the rails of our cribs to get attention, until the time we catch a cloud to carry us to the great beyond, we want people to like us. Kids call it popularity whereas adults prefer charisma, or leadership ability. But even if the Allow me to share some significant points discussed by the author, which primarily revolve around Part I and Part II, as well as a few excerpts from the later sections. Having problems with your boss or employees and don't know how to convince them to follow your lead?If you want to attract friends actively look for things you have in common and draw attention to your common experiences. In conversation use language like, ‘I know what you mean’, ‘I thought so too’, ‘I get it’ and so on that show that you are on the same wavelength. Behave in a friendly way, be open and enthusiastic, focus on the positive, smile and act like someone who really enjoys life. You #1: They’re not that bad, and tight jeans are sexy. You #2: What, are you kidding? You look like you were poured into them and forgot to say “when.” Or, you’re a single man asking yourself, You #1: Should I ask her out? You #2: Of course, not, stupid. She’ll say “no.” You #1: Yeah, but if I don’t ask her, I’ll never know. What if she says “yes?” You #2: You? Lamebrain! Why would a gorgeous woman like her want to go out with an ugly-ass blot-on-the-landscape like you?” And so the two factions within you slug it out. But not to worry, soon you’ll know how to write a contract between the internal warring parties so your best side always wins. How to Be a People Magnet has many clauses. Don’t worry if you can’t promise to comply with every single one. Neither can I—yet (but I’m working at it). All I ask is that you consider each clause carefully. Then, if—and only if—you agree to make the suggestion a part of your life, put your signature on the dotted line. The ones that are primarily for men are marked 7. The clauses marked 6 are mainly for women. The rest, marked 7 and 6, are for both men and women alike. Connections are easily made just by doing this. The more people you connect with, the more sociable you will be. Others will see that too. Once it is seen and understood that you are someone who’s highly sociable, you’ll become a people magnet automatically. Employ a more optimistic mindset

Pay compliments in a way that shows you are similar. Don’t just say ‘that’s a really nice skirt’, say, ‘I really like your skirt.’ Unless you want to come across as a stalker or character from the movie Single White Female you need to make sure you are focusing on authentic similarities and that your compliments are genuine. Nothing is going to repel potential friends faster than being fake. Many books offer relationship advice, but what sets this book apart is that you’ll learn specific skills that will enhance your ability to be a people magnet. Theories make for interesting reading, but growth comes from putting the theories into practice. Why this Book Is Guaranteed to Work! This Is Not a Book—It’s a Contract Sociological Studies Support the Contract Listen to the Testimonials I Just Want You to Be Happy! 212 Clause #46: “You Make Me Sooo Happy” Clause #47: She’s “The Ball Game,” Not “The Ball Game” 54 Hyperbole as Aphrodisiac Clause #48: My Lyrical Love This is easier said than done, of course, especially if you’re someone who isn’t natural when it comes to being optimistic. While this is the case, it is something you’ll need to force yourself to do. Not only will this make you become a people magnet, but it will also help your mental well-being more stable and positive. Be relatable

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To let a woman know I am listening, I will sprinkle my conversation with supportive statements like “uh huh” and “yes, I see.” I’ll also nod to confirm that I understand what she is saying. I’ll get it into my head that nodding does not mean I agree with her. For Men Only: