A lot of work around sexuality is work around people’s expectations or misinterpretations or confrontations with gender. Barbara Carrellas talks in Urban Tantra about making space for sexual desire, and she recommends a brief meditation. Urban Tantra ® modernizes, revels in, teases, and plays with traditional Tantra, all while honoring Tantra’s rich spiritual tradition of connection.

Sex is funny and we need to be able to laugh, not at people, but at ourselves and at the whole gestalt that is sex. I am thrilled to partner with my dear friend—erotic pioneer Joseph Kramer—to bring you the best online erotic instruction available today. Sex is my focus, but it ties in with many of the other aspects of our life – family, business, relating to others.Do women notice the difference when a guy is a half inch to a whole inch shorter than other partners? Kink as a Lifestyle (1999), Like a Pro Urban tantra training, Wheel of consent, and currently undertaking Trauma-informed training. I am a healer who uses touch and connection to illuminate the beauty and elemental truth that is the miracle of our being, expressed. Barbara is also a Sex/Life coach, offering her clients sex information and education, intuitive readings, emotional and mental rebalancing, resources and referrals.

Try to remember that what you do with your genitals is generally more important than how long they are.How Tantra (including breath, ritual, movement, and conscious touch) can enrich your BDSM practice with deeper and darker meaning.

Neither of us had much time, and this interview took place just before Passover, so here are four questions on Urban Tantra ®. A pioneer as the UK’s first certified sex coach, I have trained extensively, travelling around the world studying ancient wisdom and modern sexology from the world’s leading sex and intimacy pioneers.BARBARA CARRELLAS is an author, artist, innovator, instigator, and thought leader in the fields of sex, gender, and spirit. We at Penguin Random House Australia acknowledge that Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples are the Traditional Custodians and the first storytellers of the lands on which we live and work. A big part of me never thought change was possible, but a small spark inside of me kept taking the next step and over the years, that spark grew into a strong flame and I can now say that I deeply love and value myself and have a life, work and a relationship that I truly love.