The thing is, we humans are complicated, we get aroused by tons of stuff, some things aren't even related to sex. What you’re going through is pretty normal amongst people your age - not dirty or shameful, it’s called puberty and it can come in all kinds of strange forms and at the weirdest of times. Try not to read into it too much or let it shape your thinking around sex. You won’t really know what you like till you’re older. In the mean time, if you enjoy having your bottom strapped then just enjoy it when it happens. But don’t bother to tell your mum you were turned on by your punishment or she’ll probably be the one whose ‘weirded out’ lol It was so humiliating to me that right there in front of all three of my sisters that my mom was talking to me about this, and that my sisters knew I was being taken down the hall to my bedroom so that my mom could make me drop my pants and expect everything. I can only imagine that if my dad was telling my sisters that they had to go down the hallway to strip so that he could put his fingers in their vagina's that they would be just as embarrassed. Seriously, try and start bonding with the kids, spending time with them, taking them to the park or other activities, depending on age, interests. She’ll love you for that and want you to spend more time at her place. Within weeks of bonding, the kids will want you to spend nights there to maybe watch movies with them, or you can babysit for an evening then stay the night.

Ask her if she has seen the movie, what she thinks, and if she would be willing to watch it with you one night. After the kids go to bed! She was the closest one I could come to think of giving me the spanking I soo wanted. After many days of thinking about it, I finally decidedThe worse time however was when my sister was having a party. I think it was my sisters 12th birthday and had a number of girls over for her birthday party, and of course like most boys, I had a crush on a few of them, and always wanted to hang out with them. But my sister didn't like this and began yelling to my mom about how I was bugging all the girls. My mom didn't spank me right there in front of all of my sisters friend but took me into the living room which was just around the corner, then began yelling at me to pull down my pants and underwear, which of course she fallowed with a spanking. Of course I don't think any of the girls saw this, but it was so embarrassing to know that my sister and all of her friends where in the very next room hearing me take this spanking. I know this is probably just my hang up, but it was so embarrassing to think that they new I was in the next room pretty much naked getting a spanking. Add your answer to the question "I was aroused after being punished by my mom. Freaked out by my feelings!" In other words, the emphasis here is on your aunt, and more importantly, your childhood experiences with her, especially when it comes to spanking. As stated in my earlier comment, I am a therapist and in my professional opinion these intimate experiences with her in your childhood years, meaning the spanking, are now meshing with other feelings you have now as a young man. The desire for **, intimacy, to be with someone who is close to you, or someone who loves and understands you. I wish I had done this when I was around 12 or 13. I had a snotty attitude and wasn’t as respectful to my mom as I should have been. I felt really bad about it, but also didn’t stop doing it. Now you interject and say something like “yeah right. You’re old fashioned just like my parents. You might be able to spank smaller kids like yours, but you can’t spank someone my age. That’s so yesterday! A little belt spanking wouldn’t work on me anyway! I’m too old for that! Besides, the last time my mom spanked me with the belt I hardly even felt it.”

Fourth, talk about how you are being treated unfairly. Talk about how you used to even get spanked before, that discipline is old fashioned, you don’t believe in it, and does not work.I never had an orgasm from any of the spankings I got, but for days after I'd be thinking about it. What I'm trying to say, is your not abnormal or anything, in fact I bet it's more common than people would like to admit. Don't confuse an adrenalin rush with a turn on. They can act like the same but are totally two different things. We can get an adrenalin rush for any number of things that make our blood boil and being punished is in the top of those. So you most likely had that and read your symptoms wrong and just imagined you were aroused. Be careful of that or when you do get a guy and they are mean to you, you will have a hard time getting out of their hateful clutches and can get into some really 'beat up' situations from it.

My mother then took my jeans and underpants down to my ankles and told me to stand on her right side. I could not imagine your parents being upset that she would spank you after criticizing them so much. Given your description of her, being young, healthy, in good shape, I imagine she could wield a belt or wooden spoon very well. I am a submissive **. My wife, was kind of disgusted when I let on to her about my fetish. She did indulge me by spanking and paddling me. Not on the bare she did not want to hurt or damage me. Over time though she did warm to whipping me and being dominant and even sadistic although she would always make comments like this is what you wanted. One of the outcomes was really improved communication. Talking about what excited each of us and what we were concerned about an so on. In these discussions I was able to talk about my submissive side and that included that when these ** activities were happening, I did not want to be asked. I wanted to be told. The next thing was that I know that in the ** world the concept of a safe word is important. For my wife, me calling out for her to stop was enough to make her stop. She is right into the idea that no means no. Also she would stop if I screamed. Even though I would fantasize about her whipping me so hard that I was screaming and begging her to stop. But in reality I would never be able to hold position and would jump up and beg her to stop.

Blushing I told her that I wanted and needed her to give me a spanking, to spank me to tears and send me to stand in the corner with my bright red bottom on display afterwards. Seriously, is there anyone who can advise me on how best to approach this situation, or how to talk about the issue with her? We are close as aunt/nephew, and she has told me to text her or come over anytime if I need to talk. I began to wiggle around as my bottom was beginning to sting a little. The heat was growing in my bottom making it very uncomfortable.

I know that you are sorry, however, little girl you are going to be even more sorrier by the time I am done with you." Then tell her you have to take this **-ed class, and that everyone has to read the stupid 50 Shades of Gray book, or watch the movie. Ask her if she has seen the film and what she thinks of it. Thanks everyone for taking the time to read my post and especially to those who wrote comments to offer words of advice or support. I sincerely appreciate it. At this point I have decided to add a postscript to this story to provide more information about the relationship between my family and my aunt, and how I got to know her earlier on in my childhood. Your all right kid. Society tries to make us scared and embarrassed by sex, that's why we feel ashamed and guilty about things that are totally natural. I haven't had sex before but I know what it feels like to be turned on, and I was definitely turned on.My professional instinct tells me there is an aspect or dimension to this you are not sharing or have not shared yet. I know you want to be careful about details to hide your identity and protect your aunt and family, but I believe something happened in the past between you and her that you have not revealed, and would explain your desire to be spanked by her. My mom just sat there and kept asking me embarrassing question about if I ever look at dirty picture, or touched myself in ways that made me feel funny. All the while she just kept yanking and pulling on my penis. I began to feel a really strange sensation come over me, that at the time I didn't know what it was. I could just think I was going to pee and I tried to beg my mom to stop, and told her I had to go to the bathroom really bad, but she just kept it up until I couldn't control myself, for which of course I was having my first orgasm. Megan, I am going to give you 25 with the ruler. You will count each one. If you miss count we will start over is that clear?" Alright Megan 10 minutes in the corner and your punishment will be done. Go ahead and stand up. No rubbing." I also recall one time getting a spanking in front of my whole family. I don't even recall what it was over, but I remember my mom yanking me up right in the middle of my family room and in front of my three sisters and my dad, and my mom made me pulldown my own pants for a spanking. I recall her yelling at me to pull my underwear down, but I was embarrassed and I just froze. I was scared but also so embarrassed at the same time, that I didn't know what to do and just froze. She kept yelling at me to pull them down, but I couldn't, and I think that just pissed her off more, then she yanked them down and began to spank the hell out of me. I remember being highly embarrassed and trying to face toward the wall so that I only had to expose my butt to my sisters, but my mom grabbed my arm and just began to blister my butt so hard that I couldn't stand still. I tried for the longest time to keep my other hand covering my private parts, but she just kept swinging until finally I couldn't stand it any longer and moved my hand around to try to stop from being hit by the belt. I was jumping around in a circle trying to avoid each swing of the belt, but my mom just kept blistering me until there was no doubt that everyone got to see every private part of me.