You might have a 3 or even 4 star experience that way, especially if you relate to the author more than I do. You’ll also see that being in healthy relationships with others is not at all like walking on a tightrope. more than that, with all the examples from the author's life, i felt like i could really make a change because he did that change first. it is the door in a wall you built up so high for years and decades and now the only way out is through.

now I’m just on the 30-day action plan section which I’m gonna follow through with and report back on. The audio book was very long, as others have stated, but I think this is the type of book that you have to listen to a little bit at a time to take in the lessons.I have the right to say yes to having sex, to enjoy sex, and to pause during sex to have a conversation. it doesn't hold the secrets of the universe and it won't give you all the answers you're looking for.

If you want to be a person who is taken seriously and seen as a leader both in business and socially, you must learn how to communicate with a tone of certainty. Reading Letters From A Stoic by Seneca, parallel to Not Nice, as I did, certainly didn't make things easier. Don't give up on doing what you think is right, or best based on the emotional response that it might provoke in a single person.The most important takeaway from the book for me was to ensure that i take care of my needs and interests without fail rather than ignoring or sacrificing them for othres.