Finally the spanking stopped. As I stayed bent over the bed crying, she said, “Now…~I~ have a story for YOU. When I was little, if MY Mom caught us lying to her, we’d get a spanking for whatever it was we did. Then she’d wait and let us calm down, stop crying, and then tell us that we were getting another spanking right then for lying about it. The way I see it, when you were pretending that the belting hurt; that was pretty much lying to your Mom. So, after you calm down and stop crying, you’re going to get another whuppin’ for lying.” Then I saw a small, terrifying smile on her face as she mused, “The revenge of the Moms if you will.” Emmy pleads with Adam 'but please honey, I am really sorry and it won't happen again. I don't know why I did it but I won't do it again!'

I took my patented deep breath, and then walked up to her and bent over her leg. I remember thinking, “OK, here we go.”One of the essential segments of a healthy CDD relationship is communication. It’s important for both partners to be open and honest about their thoughts and feelings and to establish clear guidelines and boundaries from the outset. There are many spanking stories featuring a governess as the key protagonist, either as one who administers corporal punishment to her charges, or who receives it herself from her employers. The governess is depicted as a kind of surrogate mother, expected to suppress any desire for the possibility of her own marriage or motherhood. Not that there would be any time to pursue her own interests, as in addition to educational supervision, she was responsible for the social and moral development of her charges. Children carried their experience with their governesses well into adulthood. By then, they might have been either traumatized by cruel and sadistic instructors, or filled with fondness and admiration for the women who were invariably closer to them than their own mothers, based on the sheer amount of time they had spent together during the child's formative years and beyond. He pulled an armless wooden chair away from the small round meeting table adjacent to his desk and sat. “Lower your pants.”

Those who practice CDD believe that submission is not about being weak or powerless but rather about embracing a biblical model of marriage that emphasizes mutual respect and love. Real Stories of Christian Domestic Discipline

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She felt weak and could barely breathe. "I don't understand," she said. But perhaps she did understand. He stared so. Almost avid. I know honey. Now get into bed.' Adam says as he helps her up. Emmy rubs her bum and wipes her tears and gets under the covers. Adam puts her arms around her. Sheesh...fine!! I'll be boring then and just go home after work alright?!' Emmy says in frustration.

Answer: Nervous for sure. Sometimes I may have a little bravado about the impending spanking, but the closer we get to the actual event, the more nervous I get. This is because I know that I’m in for a REAL DD spanking and what that feels like. When we were doing fun or sexual spankings, or spankings where I knew I could safeword out, I found those to be arousing. But that was because I was in control of stopping the pain as soon as it got to be too much for me. Now, I don’t give myself that option and just take what is given. So bending over the end of the bed (usual position for our domestic discipline spankings), bare butt, as she stands to the side with a harsh implement is a very daunting thing. And, unlike “fun” spankings, there are no light swats or warm up swats to start. From the moment the very first swat or lash lands, the pain is overwhelmingly present and continues to grow throughout the duration of the spanking. I believe there is a point it can be counter productive. That’s what our Maintenance sessions are intended to avoid. Five years in and, so far, so good. But to your point, is there some event that could cause the dynamic to collapse? I imagine so, no different from their being events that cause ANY relationship to collapse. But that’s no reason not to embrace what fulfills everyone in that relationship. Another couple, Rachel and David, have been practicing CDD for five years. Rachel says that the discipline has helped her overcome personal struggles and become a better wife and mother. “I used to struggle with anger and impatience, but since we started practicing CDD, I’ve learned to control my emotions and focus on being a more loving and supportive partner,” she says. She began, “So Joseph, you were telling me the other day that you did not think that my slippers would hurt.” Even though the spankings I give him are very real and very painful (even to the point of tears), he has told me on many occasions that he appreciates me holding him accountable in this way. He has told me that he feels no resentment for the spanking as it was earned and that he feels a sense of calm and balance afterwards. Side note…after a good spanking…he is a model citizen around here – very eager to please, in a great mood and very productive!

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Proponents of Christian Domestic Discipline argue that it can benefit couples who practice it. Some of these benefits include: Finally, it’s important to seek resources and support from other couples practicing CDD. There are multiple online communities and forums where couples can connect and share their experiences. Resources for those interested in exploring Christian Domestic Discipline