In 2017, adult content creator Rooster says that they had their “consent […] violated on the set of Erika Lust Films, which is currently being investigated by the authorities as a rape allegation.”

Think Pip from Great Expectations, except Pip is a headstrong lesbian who gives up his family, and Magwitch is a wealthy widow looking for a cross-dressing sex slave. Rachel’s thoughts on what makes erotica feminist and the challenges of creating an anthology that fits different individual’s values 8:53 Had a bad day at work because the boss thinks your male colleague was better suited to a project you had been working on for months? Or got catcalled while walking to the grocery store? This is the perfect book to come home to when you’ve had a day full of patriarchy-fuelled hijinks.

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Most troubling is that women can enact this power retroactively to disempowering situations. In the case of sexual assault, some women can reimagine, deny, or even take responsibility for unwanted sexual experiences. These experiences are reimagined because women interpret them as either “not that bad”, or worse, feel that they were somehow complicit. … submissive between the sheets There's no better time to experiment with kinking up your TBR pile and some of the classics might just surprise you. From banned books from the 1920s to steamy modern-day confessions from anonymous sources, we've got you covered. Imagine a young person who has fairly recently discovered their sexuality mistake the skewed power dynamic between the protagonists as love while, also undergoing the realisation that they might be into BDSM. My rebellious, feminist self was appalled at the behaviour I was displaying — whoa, why do I find that idea so hot? Do I need to be in therapy? Mummy porn at its sizzling best, these stories are laugh-out-loud sexy — in the ‘OMG-I’m-going-red-in-the-face’ way. Bright Desire bills itself as “smart porn for men and women.” It’s not just straight-up boning but instead is aimed to titillate the entire body, including the mind. The feminist, ethical content is hailed as a celebration of sex with stories and situations that captivate you as much as the actual getting it on. Like this from Instructed: “Pandora Blake arrives at a hotel room, expecting to see her lover, D. Instead, she finds a letter bearing explicit instructions as to what she should do to prepare herself for him.” Oh, yeah. We are definitely listening. 28. Pink Label TV

I love fantasy novels, and a whole book of satirical feminist erotica like this ridiculous hilarity is more of an escape than any sword-and-sorcery epic. I also hope that these broads included elves in the book, but if they didn’t, I still want to tell everybody to buy it.” Sounds of Pleasure is a Tumblr featuring nothing but the sounds of sex. Listening to someone having sex is surprisingly intimate. It’s thrilling and voyeuristic all at once, like overhearing something you shouldn’t. SoP has dirty talk—aka audio from people having sex with themselves or others—and JOI (jerk-off instructions). Plus, everything is self-submitted and created, so real people are recording themselves and sending the audio in, which is hella erotic and empowering. 19. Orgasmic Tips for Girls You’re grossly mistaken if you thought you’ll start reading this all respectably in your finest librarian’s glasses, then shift to the plush sofa couch a few stories in, and end in desperate need of a shower from the coldest waters of Antarctica. Okay, Emjoy is the least in-your-face ethical porn offering we have, but we have to start with it because it’s perfect for newbies. The app’s goal is to help women reach their sexual peaks by learning all about arousal, self esteem, and sex. You can go on “journeys” that’ll help you harness your own eroticism, you can listen to their vast selection of audio porn, or you can do a lil of both. Regardless of what you use the feminist app for, this female-focused pleasure center can help anyone achieve their sexual goals. 2. Frolicme.com This professed authority allows women to attain a sense of equity within their intimate relationships that does not always have the intended effect. For example, some women may use oral sex as a way to control their relationships and bodies, avoiding cunnilingus yet perfunctorily engaging in fellatio. In return, these women may feel entitled to reciprocal demands often in the form of gifts, nights out, or the assurance of an exclusive relationship.The book may have very little in terms of plot, but what makes it captivating is the brutal honesty with which Tea has written it. For example, women in relationships might dictate the couple’s social calendar or his-and-her fashion choices, but defer to their partners when faced with major financial decisions, such as purchasing a home or moving from one city to another.