So its now been a little over 3 months since i started my journey into findom with my bff. And let me say, it has been fantastic! Some of you asked for deets on the contract i signed, so ive included that. Well... let’s just say that I found out he signed a debt contract with a FinDom for a very large amount of money. He would be sending her money as a “paypig” and she would thank him but no sexual favors whatsoever. He committed to paying her purely because of some sexual pleasure. It’s called FinDom apparently. Max went on to share that he and his wife were in a long-distance relationship and due to his work status, would see each other once every other week or so for a weekend at their home in Virginia (his other residence being in New York). It began with casual conversation and covering the basics, as one does when embarking on a new journey of kink exploration, and soon after we decided it was a good fit to move forward. I’ve thought about having a family but unfortunately I can’t even maintain an erection without someone taking my money. It worries me; Viagra has been a great help but I’m very young to be relying on that. Financial domination has been around since at least the 1990s, but has gained more attention since the pandemic after some women starting using it as a side hustle to boost their earnings and gain more financial independence.

Sisterhood is powerful. Findoms are enormously supportive of one another, willing to share tips or compare “pay pigs.” These like-minded young ladies network and share stories about big pay-offs from “human wallets”…or others who’ve disappointed or disappeared on them. Findom ContractI Robert--, are willfully entering into a contract, whereby Kris --, will have totally control over: all my financial dealings, assets, and businesses. The contract will have no end date, and will remain active unless both parties agree to termination. He does have a lot of money but I feel like this is our money that he is throwing away. Our money for the future. For kids for a house for trips whatever. Not to be giving away to some FinDom from the Internet. She can dictate not just his expenditures, but his every move! Seasoned findoms are able to tell when a man craves being completely controlled. In such cases, she’ll tell her guy what to eat, approve his daily wardrobe choices, and green light or disapprove all expenditures. An experienced findom’s end goal isn’t merely being important to her pay pig — it’s running every aspect of his life.Unsurprisingly, findom can be an expensive kink, with subs spending anywhere from hundreds to hundreds of thousands of dollars on their doms each year. But for low-to-average income subs, indulging in it during the pandemic has been a whole different story. With mass layoffs, pay cuts and increasing economic stressors slashing budgets and bank accounts, it’s become harder for subs like Ryan to finance their kink, and it’s often up to their findommes to decide how far they want to push their devoted paypiggies into the red. Crystal deposita. The ** mining claim will be transferred to Kris-- by September 2023.b. All Crystals from the ** 1 & 2 are the sole position of Kris--, and all sales from such material will be done upon approval.c. All digging on ** 1 & 2 will be done with prior approval from Kris--. Privilege to dig may be suspended at any time, for any length of time.

It was no longer about financial domination, respect or reverence," says Diamond. "They use the term when displaying or talking about nudity and pornography, whereas for me, the true meaning of financial domination involves no sexual content or nudity." He has a lot of money saved up as a result of his job and some inheritance from some deceased relatives. I studied this growing fetishistic practice and wrote about it in my recent book — Mistress Pussycat: Adventures with Submissive Men in the World of Femdom. While most submissives crave whips, chains, and physical pain, “money slaves” get off on being insulted and losing financial control. For the uninitiated, a “finsub” (or “paypig”) is someone who gets an erotic thrill from sending gifts and money to a “financial dominant” (or “findomme”). The kind of play they engage in is called “ findom” (or “financial domination”), and it primarily involves the submissive relinquishing control of their finances to varying degrees. Some only pay their findommes what they can afford to; others enjoy being put into debt and watching their bank accounts dwindle to zero. Tina ate it up. She rewarded him by teasing him mercilessly about his desperation to serve her, calling him a “beta bitch” for emptying his wallet during such an unstable time. An experienced financial submissive, Ryan got off on it. “It’s the humiliation of spending that much during a pandemic that I love,” he tells me. “It’s such a great high to see all that hard-earned money disappear, especially when I need it most.”Side note: when establishing a relationship of FinDom nature, it is imperative you put things in writing to cover your own ass in case sh*t hits the fan.** Is this even considered cheating because she doesn’t do anything sexual for him and he does not ask. Their conversations consider of her not even begging for money but basically demanding that he send her more money ASAP. Still, that hasn’t stopped many of them from asking — nay, demanding — that all that delicious stimulus money go to them: See ya never! Forget about sex — just being with a findom IRL (in real life) almost never happens. It is largely conducted largely online. Despite all the gifts and funds he’s given, the fact that a money slave has never even met his goddess is rarely seen as a red flag.

Get ready for a self-indulgent, kinky cammer AU with a younger sugar daddy and an older sugar baby! That's right, UNO REVERSE! Language: English Words: 12,499 Chapters: 10/? Comments: 145 Kudos: 494 Bookmarks: 65 Hits: 11,264Max sent me a message one day that requested I decide when he and his wife could be intimate during their visits and the color clothing he is to wear each day. The second request seemed innocent, but the first was a bit morally trying for me. The thought of forbidding a man from having sex with his wife seemed a little odd, but I decided to move forward as he requested. A speculative scenario between Zhongli and Tartaglia involving findom] Language: English Words: 1,213 Chapters: 1/1 Comments: 4 Kudos: 127 Bookmarks: 4 Hits: 2,383